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What to do when the guy I like has a girlfriend?

I'm 16. I like this guy so much he's all I think about. This sounds so cheesy. We're both on the same sports team and he would always look at me and try to get close to me. I of course tried to act like he didn't exist.

But my feeling for him got so strong. But I think on Monday I say him holding hands with a girl. I almost cried.

I just want to know how to stop liking him. I want my feeling Togo for someone ******* single.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Don't be his friend, like Kate said. That is female rationalization mode, she's implying "pretend to be his friend. Then if he makes a move and kisses you, or starts to like you, it's not your fault it's his! So you won't be a bad person and you get him."

    NO. That WOULD make you a bad person bcuz deep down you know that's a Possible outcome and you were selfish and hung around a taken man and ruined it for the other girl who is now even more heartbroken than you were.

    I already answered this question for you yesterday. You sure as hell aren't gonna get over him by entertaining the idea of him. You need to stop writing about him, stop looking at him and think of other things whenever he comes up.

  • 7 years ago

    just be his friend. even if he wants to be FWB, dont do it.

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