Gay: What Does This Mean?

Being a gay identified man is not just having sex with a man. It is a unique way of seeing the world around you. It is a collective conscience(Zeitgeist) an archetype(universal symbol found all over the world and through-out history, in this case the phallus. I suggest you read what Carl Jung has to say about this.

Some guys just want to have sex once with each guy. It's just a thing.

Really he could've said any reason but what he really wants to say is I just want to have sex I don't want someone to start having feelings and break their heart and all that drama etc.

If you're interested in a long-term relationship then you really need to go on first dates that do not end in sex.

It's important to warn your date that this is how you work because otherwise they are going to think you don't find them attractive. I kiss guys after the first date and also hug them. But also tell them and put in my profile that I need to get to know them as friends before I will play sexually.

So, I met this guy today online. He saw 5 different pictures of my face. He said I was cute. He came over to my place. He got naked and I topped him. I later sent a text lets do this again when we have more time. He said sorry we are not a match. Said I looked different than my pictures. What did he mean by this? Is he saying in person I was ugly?