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Should i forgive my biologcal father!?!?
I've been knowing I was adopted since I was about 7 years old so when my parents told me I was not surprised but inside I always wanted to be able to deny it. I meet my biological father when I was 13 and for a while he tried buying me stuff for love I guess but I'm way to close to the dad who raised me hes my heart. Well I'm 16 now but I haven't seen him since I was 15 when I went off on him, for the last 3 years every time we would talk alone he would say stuff about my adoptive parents and I finally told him about himself and that was a year ago and I haven't seen him since. I could go the rest of my life without seeing my biological mother are father ever again but it kinda hurts that was all it took for him to leave again, He left me for drugs now he leaves me for telling him I was sick of his crap. Should I forgive him???
Ps. I have only seen my biological mother once and she couldn't look me in my eyes when I was 14
5 Answers
- ?Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
Forgive him, then forget him: you don't need that worthless sack of sh&t in your life, you have a father and mother who love you.
- 7 years ago
What your biological parents did was not your fault. They did the right thing by giving your up for adoption, and that must have taken great strength on their part to let you go. We cannot control the actions of other people, but we can control our own. I understand that this must hurt for you very badly, and it would hurt anyone in your position. I would not consider your biological parents your "real" parents, and simply know that they brought you into this world and that is a great thing. Yes, I would forgive them because holding onto hurt won't solve anything; however, forgiving them does not mean you need to bring them into your life if they are toxic to you. Love your "real" mom and dad, and be thankful for them.
- Anonymous7 years ago
Forgive him at least u have met your biological father my mother won't tell me mines name I've forgiven my biological father for not helping my mother out when she was pregos with me in college and not wanting to be apart of my life (I think he might but doesn't want to pay child support and might contact me when I'm 18). I've forgiven him but I will never forgive my mother for not trusting me with a name.
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