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Do you think he's talking to someone else? 10 points?

Before I start I'm 16* So me& this guy have been talking for a few weeks. We try to hang out bc we go to different schools but it's been hard. He said a little while back he wanted to ask me in person and I was like ask me what? And he was like you'll see. So I think he means ask me out. But there's a girl he used to talk to that always comments heart eyes and all on his pictures. Her bio says 9/4/14. Do you think they're dating? I didn't think so because he calls me babe and he always tries to hang out and says he loves me. But today& yesterday our convos have been boringg. And ugh idk what to do. I'm not one of those people that's like "who's this girl" but I'm scared i might be putting effort into someone who might be into someone else. Should I ask if I'm the only girl he's talking to? ...please help.

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  • 7 years ago

    Tell him you want to be upfront and honest with each other. Let him now that you aren't sure what to think about the posts from the other girl but that you would rather him be honest if he is seeing someone else. Let him know that you want to spend time with him but would rather get the truth now rather than wait until you are more attached. Just be honest with him.....if you don't it will eat you up inside and eventually you will explode and may say or do something you don't mean.

  • 7 years ago

    Hello there!

    With almost 10+ years of relationship experiences I can say the girl might just be one of those stalker girls who adores him

    But he's not interested in her so much as just being friends. I remember 16.. I was once a stalker girl, absolutely loved a guy but he was annoyed but stayed nice to me anyways >< it really could be that he's just trying to be nice and not hurt her feelings if he's saying those things to you but ALSO watch out for warning signs that he just wants sex! If he's talking about it a lot big red flag.

    Good luck in life and love! I hope I helped!!

  • 7 years ago

    Quickest and easiest way would be to ask him. If you want to take a more indirect approach, then jokingly ask if she is his girlfriend. Don't take it too seriously if you ask. If she is, back off and respect the relationship. If she isn't, then continue the flirting.

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