My wife has a hard time letting me go.?

Wow,you really have no clue?You are not working,she is stressed.You want to leave,she is stressed.You did not discuss this trip with her,but proceeded to casually mention it while still on the phone with your buddy,she is stressed.Hey what do you think her problem is-ding ding ding!You got her all stressed out.Is this trip going to be free,guess not.Are you leaving her in a good financial position to care for the family and household in your absence,guess not.You ditching her would be kind of wrong since she is upset about things lately-you reckon?Ask her honestly and sincerely what is bothering her and I am positive she will make you aware of her insecurities.She is counting on you for security,which is shakey to say the least right now,and she needs her man by her side letting her know you will do your best to pull out of this mess.Sure she would survive with out you and be fine-she does not want to though and you should respect that.If we'

re going down we are going down together is what she is begging you to say.And all you keep saying is "you got this,right?I can go now."Come on!

I agree with Teenie! Why not offer to take her whith you? If she says no then that's her problem. If she says yes, all is good. You could both use some time away from what it sounds like.

You try the Sanitation Department.......................

Well take her with you.

So I've been unemployed for over a year now. I can't find anything in my field in the area though I've had several promising interviews this summer. I suggested to her months ago that I could work a little farther out, but that would mean me moving to work. She wasn't down for it. I let it go.

Just an hour ago a buddy calls me and says "Wanna come visit me and my wife for a week?" I'm like sure. I tell her about it while I'm on the phone with him and she asks how long again in this frightened voice.

It's almost like she's afraid I'm not coming back or something. I don't get it.

Can you guys tell me what's going on with her?

I'm not sure what's your question. Divcorce is not easy, idk.

You're either financially or sexually Satisfying. Nothing more. Nothing less.

what is your question? Are you concerned for her well being? Divorce isn't easy. it will take time.

Haha shes your wife so that's not surprising

When a woman loves you, it's priceless.