How to tell my boyfriend not to do anything at the party he wouldn't do if I was there?

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My boyfriends going to a party tonight and the only reason I'm not going is because I don't really know/like the people that's gonna be there. It's just trashy people & I know there's gonna be grinding and all and I don't want him to be doing that stuff because that'd basically be cheating... How do I say to like watch himself at the party without saying it like that or sounding weird? Please don't say "that sounds fine" because that doesn't really help.

Yvette · Answer

Ignore that other answer. Just say hey, "be safe, enjoy yourself & remember I love you" your his gf, not his mother. He doesnt need another person telling him what to do. Aand I feel like this way would remind him that he has a gf, in a way where you still want him to have a good time without you. Shows your a supportive girlfriend. & i know how you feel had the deal with my ex. We didnt break up for any means of cheating or party related. If he must & does cheaat on you then you know he couldn't handle the freedom you give. Im different then most girls and I like my share of freedom, andd I will give the same amount to my bf as long as he respects it. If he cant handle such a fantastic girl then damn theirs other options.

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

if you need to tell him to behave himself, its not much of a relationship

and if, dont do anything your wouldnt, if i was there" isnt sufficient, you have bigger problems than you realise

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How to tell my boyfriend not to do anything at the party he wouldn't do if I was there?

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