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Amy asked in HealthMen's Health · 7 years ago

How can I get my boyfriend in the mood more?

So I have a much higher sex drive then my boyfriend and its driving me crazy. I'll be in the mood and he'll say he's too tired. I have talked to him about it and he says not to take it personal and that he loves being intimate with me but just doesn't think about it as much as I do. I do try and dress up in sexy little outfits sometimes..give him massages and send dirty texts to get him in the mood already. But I don't always get the response I want. Should I worry that he just doesn't find me attractive anymore..do you think it could be medically related or should I just chill out and not let it bother me so much?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Well you are doing the right things. There could be a small chance his testosterone level is low, but it's probably just how he is.

    I'm sure it's frustrating. I am having a similar problem. My bf just has a lower sex drive than me. It's been 3 yrs & I'm learning to accept it now. I've broken up w him in the past because I took it personally.

    I don't know how often you do or how often you want to. As long as he's really into it when you do have sex back off for a bit. I know I was nagging. You will have to decide if it's something you can live w ir not. Sorry.

  • 7 years ago

    The real question is, how old is said man? There's a lot of info in the age.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Something is def wrong I never met a man that turns down sex I'm a man and I'm always the one bugging my GF for sex

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