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Friendzoned last year. Have things changed? GUYS / EXPERIENCED GIRLS?

1. I really liked a guy last year. We texted but it never got interesting. Often, he just stopped replying. He told me he just wanted to be friends. We kinda stopped talking. He was also waiting for his ex to come back from a break in the relationship. She secretly didn't want him back. They never got back. He became really lonely, didn't go to prom, not even with friends! He graduated. I got over him.

2.) In the fall, he went to my 1st choice university. I asked him for help in apps, programs, etc. When I got accepted & chose to go there, suddenly we texted a lot more & he started more convos out of the blue & asking how I was. We had some really deep, interesting, funny convos. I kinda like him again. He hasn't made a lot of friends in college (really quiet guy)... I think he's still lonely...

3.) There have been a lot of both real incidences and '"coincidences" recently that make me thinkkkk he's paying more attention to me than before when I had the big crush on him. Probably shouldn't read into the "signs" though lol. So here is the question. Have things changed? Also, it seems that after I stopped liking him/talking to him/seeming less available, he seemed more into me. Should I play a little hard to get to get myself completely out of the friendzone? But...... do you think I'm his "last resort"?

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  • 6 years ago

    I think in this instance playing a little hard to get could be a good idea because you don't want to become a second option for him. In saying that, a year has passed since he said that he only wanted to be friends with you because of his ex and there is every chance that he might have gotten over her and developed feelings for you. I would let him get closer to you and take things slow. Start off by going on little outings like coffee dates and build from there.

    Source(s): Has he ever flirted with you lately?
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