My girlfriend wants to live with me?

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My girlfriend was kicked out of the house by her mother. She told me that her mom said to her "I hate you! I wish you were never born! Get the f*** out!". Her father left her mom. Her mom likes me. She thinks I'm too good to be with her daughter. Which makes me.... idk bothered I guess. Anyways, my girlfriend asked if she could stay with me. I don't want her to because I want my own space. Besides, I live in a small apartment with one room. She has no family or friends to turn to in her situation. I wanted to tell her is there any shelters she could go to, but I didn't. But I don't want to deny her. What should I do?

Obi Wan Knievel · Answer

Well, you said it yourself, she has nobody else to turn to.  You either let her crash at your place for a while, or she sleeps in an alley somewhere.  Shelters are always full to capacity this time of year, so that's not going to happen.

This probably won't last long.  Teenage girls fight with their moms all the time, and usually they're only kicked out for a few days or weeks.

jamrillo · Answer

She has no family to go to. A shelter is only available first come, first serve and not guaranteed every night.

I don't know all the details about your relationship, but I know that if you care about her, then you can't be selfish. All this talk about "needing your space," is just you not wanting to share your stuff.

Like I said, I don't know all the details, that's just what I got from your description.

Sam · Answer

why would any mom would kick out her own daughter from house. just talk to both of them on the issue and try to sort it out.

Anonymous · Answer

wow, tough situation, how old are you and she?  Anyway, my suggestion would be to try to help her get a place of her own.

? · Answer

wow.. you want ur own space >.> she needs your help.. just let her room w/ you for a while

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