how can I get over my grief of losing my son?

There are all kind of joke/troll type questions here on YA and there is no way to be sure if a question is real or not. I hope this is a real question as it is not the least bit funny and I'm going to give a serious answer.

First, I'm very sorry for you lost. The lost of a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent, but time will heal somewhat. The problem is a parent never really gets over the lost of a child. Hang in there and it will get better and hard to do sometimes but life goes on.

How can I get over my grief of losing my son? 

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I'm very, very sorry about your loss. Time will help. In the meantime, you can speed up the process of grief by joining a grief group, either in-person or online, with people who are going through what you are. It really helps. It can also help to read about the stages of grief so you can see that your feelings are normal and how to try to reduce the bad ones. The memories are there (and should be), the pain will lessen.

Even though I'm not a parent myself and I would never truly know how it feels to lose your own child to death but I do know if I were in your postion I would have friends & family. come and honor and celebrate the life your child has lived in this world, secondly maybe start a charityto help other parents cope with the feeling of a lost one and. lastly maybe this might sound tad crazy but trust me I've seen others do it maybe have another child and tell them of there older sibling that there dream my live through. that child but I hope this might help and also sorry for your lost may God be with you and your family.

Realise that you'll be united with him in future and that he's watching over you.

Wait.

join a bereavement support group.