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Poll....for those in long rlships.. How many times do you need to make love.. Women? Men? How long have you been together?

I see a lot of couples who have different sex drives.

I wanted to know what's yours like?

Me...weekly is ideal.

Him...3-5 times a week is ideal.

Been together 7 yrs.

(3 kids, equals less sex drive)

But we try to make time!

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    we're relatively young still and have carved out a notch for ourselves every evening after chores are done and kids are in bed so our sex is pretty regular. it's not mandatory and if one of us isn't in the mood then we just snuggle. weve been together 7 years and baby number 3 is 8 weeks away. we manage. obviously, we keep having kids haha

    I'm ready for it every day, so is he but sometimes, regardless of how willing the spirit is, sometimes the body just is weak. sometimes were exhausted and before we get to being sexy, after our chat about the run down of the day, we're passed out. still, having an intent to have sex is still a good intent.

  • Liz
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Ideal is when you actually write all the letters that belong in a word. Hint: "rlships" is not a word.

  • 6 years ago

    well my parents have sex once a month, I don;t really think it matters if you have sex or not, as long as you love each other.

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