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I see a lot of couples who have different sex drives.

I wanted to know what's yours like?

Me...weekly is ideal.

Him...3-5 times a week is ideal.

Been together 7 yrs.

(3 kids, equals less sex drive)

But we try to make time!

I have been divorced and don't really believe in "love" I haven't any desire to love like that.

I have never had my heart broken, or trust broken.

It just didn't work out last time. I see now I was just infatuated.

Now in current rlship for 7 yrs and a child together, and no desire to marry again, and he respects that.

He however loves me literally to death.

I don't understand why I can't feel that.

I have a great partner, we are best friends.

But will it lead to demise if I don't feel equal love.

I'm happy alone, I'm happy with him.

I have no issues with trust, insecurities, jealousy, low self esteem.

He does have a few issues however as he knows exactly how I feel.

He is happy to let me be me though.

Could marriage strengthen the bond?

Or don't mess with what is working?

Any advice?

I have certain family that EVERY single year ( approx 15 kids) Invite everyone to EVERY birthday, even if it's a one year old, five year old.

They invite every known person! And spend a fortune!

Sometimes it's expensive for those attending too.

The parents have organised to go somewhere that you have to pay to even get in.

One party costs my family $100+ just to go.

Is it ok to just go to like milestones 10th, 18th etc...birthdays?

My OWN kids have parties at home or park, and usually invite only who they actually like and know well.

Is it me, or is it stupid to make a fuss every single year, even up till 5 yrs of age the kid has no clue who is there.

Fair enough they as a family unit celebrate, great, but to invite basically anyone they even may have met only once?

What do you do?

Where's the line for you?

Do you go to every single b'day your invited to?

Some are for it.

Others against.

Please answer yes or no.

And which of these would you choose for counselling...

1. Private consulting office.

Main road, amongst businesses.

2. Counsellor working from home office.

Main road, but amongst residential homes.

3. Counsellor comes to you.

In your own home.

Pick one or all...but preference first.

Whether you broke it off, or you got dumped.

What was the first few days like...?

Did you find a way to let go?

What was your coping mechanism?

There's birthdays, school concerts, graduations, deb balls, marriage, grandkids etc...so why do rlships have to involve and hurt the kids just coz 2 adults can't get along and make it work!

Why ruin the kids life by avoiding each other....

Agree or not.

Like the best partners are the ones who make great exes.

If you split with your partner today, would he or she be a great ex?

Do you agree, how a person is after a break up, shows their true colors?

Can you honestly say, if things ended they wouldn't be a total prick or a$$hole or ******.

I find, if they would be a good ex, they are worth staying with.

Weekends can be excluded.