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A guy and a girl can't be friends. Agree or disagree?

Before you start to read this . this is a story of what happened to me. and im hurt. cause I really miss my best friend ):

The guy in the story is me.

most of the time you talk to someone is cause you wanna cuff them. let's say you a girl likes a boy. and the reason she talks to him everyday is cause she likes him. she thinks about him everyday, just trying her best to be with him you know. but that guy doesn't like her and nothing happens between them, but at the same time, that guy is building relationships feelings with her while shes not , she's building like feelings. and the guy sees her as a best friend. but suddenly yous get into a fight. and yous don't talk for like 3 months. and the guy texts the girl apologizing, and the girl says its okay don't worry, but the guy tries to talk to the girl like before, like best friends he thought he was with her. talking everyday like friends. suddenly shes not replying to him, or texting him with no emotion like before , and the guy misses that. how they used to talk like best friends. and so the guy asks why don't you wanna talk to me like before? and the girl says , well its because I lost feelings for you, the main reason why I would talk to you every day was because I liked you. and the guy gets upset and hurt that its not like before, and he won't have that best friend anymore. what do yous think? can a guy and girl be friends?

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    I don't think that's true. I have more guy friends than girlfriends. One of them is four years younger than me, but he's my best friend. Another guy I know is a lot older than me, but he's kinda like a big brother to me. Both of these are amazing people, and I don't think there should be any rules saying a guy and a girl can't be "just friends". It's totally doable, but it depends on the people. Also, I'm sorry about you losing your friend. You could try telling her how you feel. Say you love her as a friend and you miss her. Don't get too down on yourself, things will get better eventually, one way or another. Good luck (:

  • 6 years ago

    I have more guy friends because they're easier to get a long with. However they're all gay and I love them as friends.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    They did want to be best friends and maybe more, but with a gap of 3 months, the enthusiasm faded. Maybe she felt she was being picked up and dropped as and when. Her initial reply was simply a polite response.

  • 6 years ago

    A guy and girl can be friends I have a friend that I've known since I was 2 so I think they can be friends. :)

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Answer to question only: disagree.

    After reading story: I still disagree.

    You are an adolescent, and your feelings and your ability to understand WHY you have these feelings is unclear, because you have not experienced adult life yet. After some years of experience, you will have a better understanding.

  • 6 years ago

    agree

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