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More interested in giving than receiving?
I'm gay and when I fantasize about being with other guys I always think of things I can do to please them (and touching them). I rarely ever think about them "servicing" me.
Is that the way most gay people are, or is that unique to me?
11 Answers
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
In all relationships whether your gay or straight there's usually a person that has dominant or submissive tendencies. Basically some prefer bottom some prefer top, some prefer being the do-ers while others prefer being the receivers. You like being a do-er which is perfectly normal, your question doesn't really have a answer. Even though others do think that way it's still unique to you because some others prefer the opposite. I hope that cleared things up for you a little.
- 6 years ago
So what you think you might like to do more is "top". Some guys are strict tops. The people who receive - are "bottoms" and there are people who are strict bottoms - myself included... And then there are people who like to both top and bottom and they are referred to as "versatile".
I'd say try topping and bottoming and be sure. You never know - you might like bottoming once in a while. But heads up - there are many guys who are strict bottoms - so you should not lack for partners.
- Anonymous6 years ago
Many of us are like that, probably because we know what we like and the type of guys that we like to 'service'. For me it's got to be a two sided affair, as if he wants and enjoys what I do. But what I don't like is a wet fish, a guy that just lays there and does nothing or doesn't respond to my touch. Argh!
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- TolleLv 46 years ago
That is unique to you. and like half the people on earth. People like me want to know what you can do for me
- 6 years ago
Hey i thought i was the only one. Nothings wrong with that. As long as your happy and their happy
- 6 years ago
I think everyone's like that, either straight of bi or gay or lesbian, doesn't really matter
- Anonymous6 years ago
No most gay men are either top or bottom.
- 6 years ago
Nope but it depends somse guys perfer to be versital and its not uqniue. and thanks for answering my question.