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Can't maintain erection when I have a condom on! Please help!?
Okay so I am a freshman in college and have tried to have sex on multiple occasions. Let me give you some background information first. I am uncircumcised and I cannot retract my foreskin because of a tight foreskin (I am currently working on finding that problem by stretching methods). So well when I lost my virginity, I put the condom on and it didn't work. Second time we tried i got inside of her but I didn't feel anything at all. Like nothing at all. I've been trying with this one girl right now and whenever we do it without a condom (just a couple pumps) and it feels amazing and I can keep it up like that. But she doesn't wanna do it without condoms (I understand). Today, I went in I'm her room and we made out I gave her oral and then she gave me oral while I il opened the condom and put it on. I was using the Trojan bare skins (before this i have used ecstasy, ultra charged and few more) but then I went inside of her and didnt feel anything. I didn't sven feel my penis slip out her vagina and then it went soft. So she just gave me oral to finish me off. Like Cmon. What should I do??
5 Answers
- 6 years ago
Worrying about this situation will only make it worse so you need to train yourself to wear a condom.
It's very common for men to have this issue, condoms aren't very sexy and rolling a rubber sleeve over your penis just when you are excited and ready to go is quite off-putting.
If you find little sensation through a condom you could try the specially designed thinner ones. Find a shape and size of condom that fits you well, not too tight or loose and with a shape that fits the head comfortably. Get a good supply in and learn to put them on during your private w4nk1ng sessions when it won't be embarrassing if you lose your *****. That way you should get used to the feel of wearing one.
During sessions with your girl get her to masturbate you so you learn the feeling of someone else doing it. Get her to do it very slowly and gently so you get used to a soft touch.
Don't move on to penetration until you are very, very hard and then ask her to put the condom on you, which is probably more sexy than doing it yourself.
- Anonymous6 years ago
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- MichaelLv 76 years ago
Your foreskin is a bit too tight to fully retract so you need to do some stretching exercises to loosen it up. In most cases a tight foreskin can be fixed with daily stretching for a few weeks, but if that doesn't help then you can get a steroid cream from your doctor.
If you do an internet search for help with phimosis (which is the medical term for a tight foreskin) you will find lots of helpful websites, but here is one I found for you which gives some good advice and instructions on stretching techniques: http://www.healthboards.com/boards/mens-health/178...
Good luck and remember that it's very unlikely you will need a circumcision. The foreskin is a natural and important part of the penis with lots of sensory and sexual benefits, so it's worth keeping! Check out this link for more info: http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/info/be...
- ?Lv 45 years ago
popsicle stick and duck tape.... While your having sex is your mind somewhere else? Seems like your just loosing concentration during sex. If you ask her to get on top and she says no. Then you take the time to talk about it then yeah I would go soft to. It may be stress like you said. Your into the sex but maybe your mind wonders off into something else. You should be fine. Sometimes that has happen to me. But after I realize that I went "soft" I would do things to put my mind back on her. Then I am right back up again.
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