what should i do about my girlfriend who went on a date with another guy, while i was at work?

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Okay, so a few details. My girlfriend & I have lived together, for ten months. When she's at home she's all over me saying she loves me, blah blah, but when she's at work, she' is giving out her phone numbers to customers, overly friendly with guys, and recently went on a date with a guy who asked her out one night while I was at work. She swears she's never "cheated" on me, who knows? What should I do? Also, she's punched me in the face on several occasions when angry.

Patricia · Answer

Gee, she's really sweet isn't she (not).  Sounds to me like she's not ready for a committed relationship with you or anyone, considering she is giving her phone number out and going on dates while you're at work.  Maybe she moved in with you on a whim?

Kellsy · Answer

Kick her *** out. Are you kidding. You're in a monogamous relationship and you live together. In my eyes, going on a date with someone else is cheating. Unless you aren't serious then you're just out dating but when you live together, oh hell no. Tell her to kick rocks

? · Answer

I'm not condoning her actions, but are you sure SHE thought it was a date? Just because people hang out doesn't make it one, I hang out with friends but doesn't mean I'm dating them either.

I think you need to sit down with her and have a mature conversation with her that doesn't involve insulting her, yelling at her or judging her... you need to find out her POV before making your move. If he's just a friend and she thought it was a hangout then you can't control her but she also needs to know it makes u feel uncomfortable.

? · Answer

I agree with Kellsy. Sex is not the only way to cheat. Going out on a date while already in a relationship is definitely a form of cheating. Kick her OUT!

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