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Why do I keep having wet dreams? Help I'm 14.?
Hi!!!! I'm a 14 year old boy and lately I've been having a lot of wet dreams. I probably have 2 each week. It doesn't sound like a lot but it's so embarrassing which makes it really bad. I don't masturbate, not because of religious reasons, it's just I don't really want to, it seems a little gross. So I wake up usually right after I have a wet dream and my sheets are completely soaked. That's another thing, every time I have a wet dream, there seems to be a lot of my "stuff." It's so much that it soaks my pajamas and the sheets. Maybe it's because I don't masturbate, so it gets built up down there, that's what I've heard. The other day it really embarrassed me: I was at a sleepover with my friend (girl but not girlfriend) and I had a wet dream while sleeping on the couch. She was right there and noticed but she said she would never ever tell anyone and she understands that I can't help it. It's just ruining everytime I have to sleep. It's only about 2 times a week but is still annoying. That sleepovet was so embarrassing especially in front of a girl. My friends told me masturbating helps but for some reason it kind of grosses me out to rub my thing until white stuff comes out. How can I control this? Is there a way to control when it happens? I wish it wouldn't happen and I could just not worry about it happening but that is impossible. Thanks.
8 Answers
- Anonymous6 years agoFavorite Answer
Mother Nature uses wet dreams to make sure everything is in good, working order. Also, when you are unable to masturbate (e.g. hospital) or unwilling, then She does it for you, in a sense. It's not dirty, nor is there anything wrong with you.
Masturbation is perfectly natural. Almost all boys/teens, and many men, do it. It's part of learning about your body, and helps prepare you for intercourse. The only reason you'd find it gross, is because someone has planted the idea in your head. Or you have overheard others talking about it in a negative way. Whilst I can understand your embarrassment, really the only way you can deal with it, is to start jerking off and make it fun, a playful activity to be explored, and feel how your body reacts and relates to it. It's perfectly normal, and nothing to fear, or be ashamed of, when you do it. Indeed, later on, sex is the essence of life, expressed.
Try to find positive views about it, and learn from them, to accept yourself as being the same as other guys your age, and that's masturbation - Sex For One - is just a part of daily life, especially in puberty.
- Anonymous6 years ago
Yes, not masturbating when you are sexually functional, the body will take matters into its own hands, so to speak, to release or reduce the sexual urges. So most males masturbate-- lot easier to control the mess that results when you are awake than when asleep, plus there is no enjoyment during sleep. Few guys actually have "dreams" it just happens during sleep. Also getting it on your clothing and bed sheets can be embarrassing and can smell too.
- 6 years ago
Its Your choice to blow a wad in a napkin when your in control or in your pants while asleep. It's coming out one way or another.
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- Roland DayLv 76 years ago
Hi Isaac:
When a male does not have sexual intercourse or masturbate, the semen will accumulate in his seminal vesicles. When they get full, the semen needs to be ejaculated. The body usually does this during sleep, although emissions while awake have been reported.
The ejaculation during sleep is known as a “nocturnal emission” or as a “wet dream”.
The only woy to prevent wet dreams is to masturbate to orgasm before sleep or by having frequent and regular sexual intercourse.
It is your choice between wet dreams or masturbation.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission
- bender_xr217Lv 76 years ago
If you masturbated, at least then you'd be in control of when and where you ejaculate.
- Anonymous6 years ago
JAXCK OFF MORE