Usless *** people?

Shut up wench. He is making a living for you and the kid. Yes, it is your friggin job. He is doing his. You feminazis think you set the rules. YOU DONT and no one has to accept your crap. So shut up and go feed the kid. You women have been given into far too much just because men wanted to get laid. You feminist minded knot heads even prove you are full of it. You scream equality but the very last thing you want is equality, because you are not equal and you do not want to have to do the hard stuff. Hey toots, white males do not need or have special concessions or laws to give them an unfair leg up and we do not need them like you and minorities do. Oh, did that hurt your feels? I HOPE SO CAUSE IT IS TRUE and it is well past time you and others faced it. You want it done for you all while screaming you are better than us. LOL. You aren't. The only thing most of you have to offer is a pussy. Face it wench. Now go feed the kid and STFU. Mind your place, get your head right and figure it out or you are going to ruin the marriage you have and you are going to ruin your kids too.

Feminist idea of a good man=

A man who will happily take and accept you after you have been used up by every man in town

A man who will do whatever you want or demand without question

A man who is not man enough to put you in your actual place but is man enough to fix the faucets or can afford to pay someone else to do it

A man who makes a living for you but will still put up with your ****

You mention he has a son from the Dominican Republic. Is that where he's from as well?

If so you have to realize you're dealing with a man who grew up with VERY different cultural values. Before this child came along, before you got married, did you actually discuss your values on raising children and families or did you just assume everything would fall perfectly into place? Try to be a bit more mature about this.

You shouldn't call someone a loser because theyre not doing what you think they should especially when they can say the same about you because you don't contribute a dime to the families financial responsibilities. Another reason you shouldn't is because you picked him to be your husband & father of your child.... under those circumstances what does that say about you for chosing a loser. As far as your pay, ask any single person how much their living expenses are then compare it to how much money you shell out each month to afford your life style, ZERO seems to me you get paid plenty. Yes your husband should have a more active role in caring for the baby but not because of you, he should do it to form a bond with his child.

My dad has a kid that lives about 3 hours away from us. So it is similar circumstances.

This is what my mom did to my dad...

She kicked him out for a week and said to "get a grip and pull yourself together" He did so, but only for a month or so. She repeated this a couple more times and then when she realised there was nothing left in their marriage she kicked him out for good.

This was all quite recent. They are not divorced yet. My dad comes to see me every couple of days at our house for a couple of hours. If my mom stays civil with him, he's happy! Just let him see the child under your supervision.

About the divorce, you don't want him to see his child because you say "he is terrible at taking care of kids" use the method i explained about letting him see the child under your supervision. You will also be in a stronger position because:

1. Your the mother

2. He hasn't seen the child in the Dominican Republic for 5 years so you can use that against him.

Hope this helps!

I wonder why you married a man you are clearly not compatible with. Surely you knew his attitudes before you married him. And why would you bring a child into a bad relationship? You are equally responsible for the situation. It won't get better until you accept that.

I just wonder what parts in the story you're not telling. Most people don't know what true honesty is anymore. It's how you kids were raised. I feel sorry, but also disgusted with the younger generations. You don't seem very impressive as human beings.

Leave his *** and find a good man. You don't need that

Probably would have been a good idea for you to have discussed things like this with him before getting married, no?

Use birth control and get out of this relationship as soon as you can.