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I do everything for my husband i cook,laundry,clean,sex. Everything i can possible do to make him happy. I guess im missing something cause a few days ago i got this intution to check his phone. Only to find out hes been talking to a women sending her picture of his penis and of himself and she does the same. Its been going on since july 4th. All this time im thinking we are happy and for the first time in a long time im so happy. Going to school to be a medical assistant have my little family (my son and husband) i was so mad saturday when i found this out. she knows about me and our son and she still contnues to talk to him but i cant be mad at her i know shes just trash. In the convo they where all sextin each other talking about going away to a cabin to be together. She did ask him to erase the convo but he said to her dont worry she doesnt understand spanish. Which is so mean because that makes me look stupid and ofcourse shes just gonna keep going with it if he dont care y should she. Anyways i feel evenually i might call it quits its not fair to me to go through this. Im a good person i do everything i can to make him happy. I just imaging if i was a bad person not cooking or doing anything for him how worse would it be. Its just wrong but i belive in karma...

So my husband brother which i cant stand is coming this year for Thanksgiving. Hes really mean and for no reason. For example if i wear something weird he would talk to my husband in spanish and they start laughing and i know its about me you can just tell. Itbwas just suppose to be his parents now all of. a sudden he wants to tag along. I just cant stand him he also erased me off fb which i didnt even notice until my husband came home. Made up sombulzhshit excuse he doesnt use fb anymore even though he still does. I kinda have a feeling my husband told him to erase me which is weird he could have asked me if he wasnt comfortable with me being his freind i would have erased him.

Every since I decided to get married I've been missing out on so much. My sisters are always going out taking trips and I'm always stuck with my husband. I would like to go out and have a girls weekend somewhere wheather it's Vermont or any where just to relax. Everytime I try to do that my husband gets all mad and doesn't agree. I'm so mad I feel like I got married to the wrong person I think it's normal for me to go away with my sister but he doesnt. I'm so angry I never do anything not even go away me and him. I stay home all day with the baby he has weekends off instead of taking me away he rather be home playing video games. The only place we ever go is to his family's and I'm getting g do not sick of that I wanna do our own thing but he can't understand my feelings only his feelings matter. I just wanna get my life together go to school become medical assistant and save up and part ways I don't belive there's any life for me with him.

I had a dream someone was shooting inside my apartment building. I heard some talking outside my apartment so I went to kisten better and I heard someone say "someone is has a gun. So I imiditly ran woke up husband and grabbed my kid and we ran out. As I was approaching the stair ready to run down. A man was coming down and pointed tge gun right at me I looked back trying to walk the opposite way towards a different exit then I woke up. So scary more scared for my poor baby then myself. What do to think this means

My husband always treats my family like crap always talks bad about them and they are so nice to him. When it comes to his family I am so nice to them I smile socialize. So when it come to my family he gets mad when I wanna hang out with them not include him. I feel I have ever right to do so cause he always talks about them and starts trouble with them then gets mad when I wanna do thing separate. I'm I missing something. I'm pretty sure if I did the same to his family he would feel the same. What pisses me off so much is he gets all confused and wonders y I don't want him to come.IL explain more for example my sister dating a girl and he always say what a fag and he goes to my mother and tells her and she really strict about that and he try to start trouble. Another time he texts me ND tells me your mom's a loser that can't hold a man down and she is trash. Now that I explained some more what do u think

My husband always act weird whenever I bring up my younger sister. For example when I tell him I'm going out with he he gets all mad and talks so much crap about her. I can't stand it and she didn't do anything she is so nice to him. It's so annoying I resent him for this I don't get y he acts so threaten by her. Just because we are close. I always pictured my husband getting along with the closes people to ne but he is the exact opposite. What should I tell him my sister wants to go out for dinner Friday and I know he's gonna have alot to say but I font care I'm going. That's my family if u can't accept that I really feel we will not last

I got in a fight with my husband because everytime I wanna see my family he makes a huge deal. But with his family I'm always with him and he thinks it's ok. I had enough of it so I left. For the past month he's been coming to my mom's 3 4 times a week. Begging me to come back so I gave in. He promised me all these things like I can go to my family no issue anytime. As soon as I moved bk he went bk to his old ways. After I told his I'm getting my stuff and the dust settled he went bk to the person I tried to escape. I feel my life with out him I was so happy and full of life now I'm back to always fighting and being sad. I don't know what to do if I go back to my mom house she will look at me like I'm an idiot if I stay I feel depressed. What do I do

For the past two years I lived with my husband I've been cooking almost everyday and trying to make him happy with what he likes to eat. We go to a dinner to my mom's I made some beef ribs which where amazing. He asks me at dinner in front of all my siblings and mother "you mad this" I responded yes. Then my mom responsed yes she's a was always a good cook he goes ALWAYS hahaha I don't think so. That honestly made me so mad cause I break my bk to please him from cooking cleaning taking care of are baby and he never seems to be satisfied I don't get it. He's always been single cause of his attitude no girl had the patient to deal with him but I loved him at the time and wanted to give him a chance now I regret it. I just feel he will never change and I need to figure something out but don't know what to do. Also everyone we fight instead of solving the issue like real couples he always threatens to go out and do what he wants as he puts it. What do I do please help

So before I met my husband he had a kid. He was 7 at the time now he's 14. Whenever I bring him up he always dismisses it I don't get y is he ashamed of him. I also believe his dead beat way he is embarresd about so he makes me look like I'm the jealous type that would never accept his kid which is not the case. I just find it so weird because he hasn't seen his kid since 2010. He lives in dominican republic, the other weird part is the kid doesn't have his last name. Why would he make me look like the bad person that's so wrong. I wanna find out my self out of what's going on because if he's making me look bad I wanna set the record straight. His sister in law doesn't like him much so I was planning when we go to the lake she will give me answer I'm searching for. What's sad about this is we have a kid together and he is great to him puts his pictures all over Facebook, but he never mentions his other son. I'm so confused and don't know what to do. It's his bussiness because it's not my kid but y not be proud of him and acknowledge his existence, instead of denying him. Please help

So I was on the phone with jet blue checking on my flight. The lady puts me on hold all if a sudden it went from regular hold music. To this freaky voice singing it sounded like Latin. It was so weird I was with my sister she heard it too. I'm freaking out so bad I don't know what it was but it gave me the chills. It was like the voice was speaking to me it was the weirdest thing just telling u guys about it makes my skin jump and my stomach flip

When I was 7 my dad died. 2 years later my mother got married to this pevert. He molested my older sister and gave me and my siblings weed and alcohol. We were so young and my mom didn't care about us. My sister told her about the abuse and she ignored it and let it happen. Now it's all over she divorced him but not because he did anything to us but because one of her friends seen him give us weed and told her. My mothers all about her self image so she divorced him. Yesterday I was thinking bout all this and I texted her all mad and said your a horrible person and one day u will pay for what u let happen to us. She called my older sister and blamed her told her he did that to u cause u was all over him never left his side. After years of repressing her feelings my sister freaked out on her and said this is all ur fault u brang him to our life and threw us to him. I was ten and didn't know anything and u let him molest me and said nothing to him which made him feel it was ok to do it. I was so proud of my sister she never opened up about it til lastnight. I can't believe my mother never cared y have us if u don't want us and she really doesn't I never got put into any school activity because she would pay for it. she was too busy going out with friends. just don't understand how a women can have kids and not care about them that's so evil. I'm a new mom and there's nothing in this world I wouldn't do to protect and love my baby. How do u feel about my situation

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When me and my husband are alone he's all loving and cute and say come here babe but when we are around peoe he acts different. For example tonite I invited my sis and husband over and me and my sister husband where playing FIFA I won and my husband goes u lost especially to a women like this he always try's to put me down but my brother I law said what's wrong with a women like her all confused and alittle annoyed that made me feel bad so the next game I played bad cause I kept thinking of that comment he made and my brother I law goes to him u put her down that's y she's not playing good he gets all nervous and says I was just playing but he always that infront of people real me. Put there women up and make them feel good infront of people but he always does the opposite. I do so much for him cook clean laundry I even wake up at 5am to make his lunch before work and he treats me like nothing I dont get y but it's ok I guess cause he looks like an idiot in the end not me.

My husband is so useless we have a 3 month old an he never helps me he has a theory that it is the women job to do everything for the baby. Feed change everything. He claims he works and I stay home so I should handle it but he's wrong I work too full time no pay. He doesn't want help at all he feels if he helps he is less of a man such a loser I should have figured he has a son in Dominican Republic he hasn't seen in 5 years so what makes are kid any special. Oh well glad he has me. I wonder if we every separate will the judge grant him weekends hope not he is terrible at taking care if kids. Love my kid with all my heart he's so cute and innocent but I regret my decision I could have had my beautiful pumpkin with a real man instead of this loser. I have a feeling it won't last too long. What are ur views on this topic

So my husbands has his cdl licenses and he found a yard near are apartment complex to put his truck in and bring his car home instead of leaving his car so far away where he works. My sister came over to see me on my day off and he expected me to ask her to drive him to get his truck that's at his job So far away drive to the yard and back to his job to pick up his car and go home. I hate asking people for favor especially on there day off it's annoying she was planing to enjoy her day go to a movie with my cousin and relax. So I say no that's annoying ask ur brother she's not a taxi driver and it's her only day off get the f out of here that's so annoying. Ofcourse he's dead selfish and gets mad but it's retarded don't understand y u mad for u don't have maid service if I said no figure something else out don't be retarded call ur dam brother. So ducking weird what do I say to that

So my husbands has his cdl licenses and he found a yard near are apartment complex to put his truck in and bring his car home instead of leaving his car so far away where he works. My sister came over to see me on my day off and he expected me to ask her to drive him to get his truck that's at his job So far away drive to the yard and back to his job to pick up his car and go home. I hate asking people for favor especially on there day off it's annoying she was planing to enjoy her day go to a movie with my cousin and relax. So I say no that's annoying ask ur brother she's not a taxi driver and it's her only day off get the f out of here that's so annoying. Ofcourse he's dead selfish and gets mad but it's retarded don't understand y u mad for u don't have maid service if I said no figure something else out don't be retarded call ur dam brother. So ducking weird what do I say to that