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pls help!! What does this cuddling mean?
My best friend is married with kids. For me, my wife died a year ago, live alone and my ex drops in now and then to stay the night.
Lately my best friend wife has started making these cuddles gestures by raising up her arms for us to cuddle. And though we've cuddled many times now she only initiated cuddle when her husband (my best friend) wasn't around.
What does this mean? I'm afraid because I don't want my friend thinking otherwise if he should see me cuddling her. What would you think to see your partner cuddling your best friend? What should I do when she makes such gesture again. Is it normal and should I just carry on? Thanks for your advice.
3 Answers
- ?Lv 66 years ago
she wants a fling with you / or she is testing your friendship with her husband ? your sort of stuck between her and him , you can't say anything to him or he will think that it has already ( sex ) taken place . if you keep pushing her aside she could lie to her husband ( your best friend ) about you hitting on her . as for being normal - it is not, this is not going to end well in my view , so stop the cuddles and see what her reaction is - then play it out from that point on, on a bold front ask her out right what her intentions are .
- ?Lv 76 years ago
I think you're talking about hugging, not cuddling. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it or just give a quick hug then a release.
If I saw my husband hugging someone, I'd assume they were saying good bye or one was offering sympathy to the other.
- Ok...Lv 76 years ago
Not appropriate, and she is a big girl, so she KNOWS it's not, esp because she is doing it when he's not around. When she says she is coming by, you make an excuse so that she cannot come by. She gets the hint. Good luck.
