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Why isn't he starting the conversation?
This guy and I clicked and he keeps telling me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and that he wished he were here with me. But over the last week, he asked me several times if I were talking to other guys and said that he couldn't possibly be the only one. I told him all three times that I haven't met anyone else. (Kinda sense like I should've continued seeking). He was also mad when I didn't text him the next day because he thought we clicked. He doesn't usually start the convo and I don't want to be constantly the one to text him first. He seems sincere and all he calls me is beautiful, gorgeous and amazing. I don't know how to address this to him because Ive also told him that if he wants to talk about anything, he could text me. When I text him, no matter where he is or who he is with, he will answer me within a minute. Is it possible that he is just playing me or if not, talking to other people?
3 Answers
- 6 years ago
His behavior seems way controlling. You didn't state a time frame but sounds like you only very recently met him? And he's already accusing of you talking to other guys? Not once but "several times?" And worried that you "couldn't possibly be the only one?" And he's already gotten mad at you? NONE of these are good signs.
Getting to first know someone should be fun, exciting and enjoyable. That's not happening and all you're getting out of this is someone telling you you're "beautiful, gorgeous and amazing?" Move on....the fact that you are asking these questions sounds as though you already know the answer yourself. If there is one person out there who will tell you sweet things you want to hear, there's also another one. Go and find the other one.
- 6 years ago
Well, it does seem like he really likes you. I mean, why else would he keep asking you if you were talking to other guys? He probably doesn't text first because he's waiting for you to text him. Maybe in his mind, he's worried that you don't like him anymore (hence the reason why he asked if you were talking to other guys), so he waits for you text first to prove that you do. I don't really know, this is just my theory.
- ez2tock2Lv 76 years ago
Use this guy for PRACTICE. Leave your heart out of it. Meet and Date other guys, use this guy to learn about guys and how boring and insecure they could be.
Those sweet terms are the worm on a fish hook. It's bait to get you, you could be released and thrown back at anytime. DO NOT promise him anything that brings your life to a stand still. There are guys near you that will sweep you off your feet, if you give them a chance too.
