Am I wrong for not wanting advice?

I don't believe Andy, that you wholeheartedly object to advice, support or guidance. Your own fathers ill tempered, and somewhat immature reaction, will have let you, without doubt, feeling very knocked backed, misunderstood, and dejected. From your other questions, postings, and in particular, this question, you are a young man, still trying to do your best. And even the very best, make mistakes, and always will. That's how we learn. Don't let your fathers reactions implode upon your life, to the extent where can no longer trust anyone else, or the positive advice they may offer you in the future. As you mature, you will learn how to seek out others for trusting guidance and friendship. Along the way, you will

experience many kickbacks. But you will find the coping skills along the way, to deal with this. Life is a ***** Andy, for most people. Try not to let your own father's unsupportive, and rather ignorant advice colour your own hopes of a bright future.

Your dad seems to be more stressy and anxious than needed. I guess he has had experiences of his own, that he may not have come to terms with.

The only lesson learned is to have a closer finger on the pulse as regards your employer, company culture, colleagues and potential opportunities.

And maybe not be concerned about going home to 'get ready'. Keep a few things at work so if there any impromptu socials, you can just go for it - that's what most professional do!

You don't have to take anyone's advice. But those with experience in certain subjects have valuable opinions.

Listen but you don't have to take advice. They mean well.

You have the right to live as you please , without taking peoples advice if you do not want to-- including your DAD. As long as you are self supportive and independent, do your own thing. Move Along--Good Luck

To be honest if I gave you any advice I would be going against your wishes. Do as you see fit.

Your at an age to do just that but you should always just be kind and hug dad and say I love you! His political views he just wants heard, and actually its great to listen but your time and actions are your own.

i dont think youre wrong for wanting to make your own decisions

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