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Can someone please give me advice?? /:?
My boyfriend and I have reached our point. We broke up like 2 weeks ago and we remained friends and constantly texted and talked but I was really upset with him when I saw him talking to other girls whom he never spoke to during our relationship so of course it looked like a red flag to me and I reacted to it and texted him "why don't you go talk to so and so" and he got really upset and we argued and he said we're not together anymore and kept explaining how he was just being nice and having a casual convo, and I told him so that's it? You moved on? And he said I'm ******* trying to. And that broke my heart so I said I wouldn't speak to him anymore. And I got rid of all our pictures together...He then of course began to tweet away his sadness. It's only been one day. And I am ******* dying. After almost 2 years together. I just need some good advice if possible /: I need to know if it's gonna work out or not so I can move on /:
4 Answers
- IamicecreammanLv 56 years agoFavorite Answer
Unfortunately, you just have to be strong. It will get better, I promise. From one day to the next, it will feel better. Maybe not for a few months, maybe not even for a year, but a day will come where you wake up and realize, "I'm not heartbroken anymore!"
Try talking to him again so that you can both leave on good terms with each other. Thank him for the good memories you both had, and wish him well in life.
Don't go into a rebound relationship, as I see a lot of people tend to do after long term relationships. A rebound relationship is where you date the nearest male to your vicinity in order to distract yourself from you're feelings. It is unhealthy for you to do that. I've never seen a rebound relationship that didn't end in disaster for both partners.
Trust me, just be strong, and find a way to cope. Wait until you heal to get into another relationship, and make sure your friends are there to support you.
EDIT As someone else mentioned, being friends with him is not an option and it is not healthy for you. But as I said, don't hate him. He is going through pain as well.
- 6 years ago
I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me. We dates for almost two years as well except when we broke up, we completely stopped talking. I loved him and it broke my heart when he decided to end things. You should let go. There will be other guys out there. He's trying to move on and you should too. You deserve to. It's difficult because you've had him in your life for so long. To all of the sudden not have him in your life is hard. Just give it time and stay strong.
- IndividualLv 46 years ago
Cut all contact. Do not, absolutely DO NOT stalk his twitter. Cut yourself off from him. That "I'm ******* trying" comment is so insensitive, he no longer deserves your attention. Honestly, I did the same thing. I stalked my ex and watched her get with other people over the course of 2 months. It was horrible. It will hurt you to start with but it just gets better and better, I promise. Unfollow him on insta, delete him on snapchat, don't look at his stories, delete him on FB, unfollow on twitter and don't go to his page. Go out with friends, entertain yourself. Talk to new people, interesting people and they will give you a taste of what other people can be like - just as good as he is if not better!
The reducing contact with him is vital. Just block his number. Don't worry about offending him - he didn't care about offending or disrespecting you at all. Right now is about you and making yourself better. Do anything you have to do. Also, don't stalk other people's social networks where you know he will be seen on. Just don't look at it because it will make you feel worse.
Absolute best of luck. Know that time is the best bandage and you will need it. You can't rush getting over someone. Don't just get with random rebounds either because it will make you feel worse.
- TarkarriLv 76 years ago
I am failing to understand why you are reacting jealously to him talking to other girls.
That is a bit over the top even if you were still in a relationship but you have broken up.
It is good you tried to remain friends but friends allow each other space an distance.
If you cannot get your jealousy under control then you will loose even the friendship.
Source(s): Still best friends with my ex husband after 20 years married and also still friends with my first love from 40 years ago!