Should I go back to Phoenix or stay in Seattle?

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I moved Phoenix to Bremerton wa a few weeks ago and have been very angry sense I have arrived. I had to break up with my gf because of my transfer and she ran off and met someone 2 days later. The food in Seattle sucks and I seem to take it out on every waiter or waitress at every place I eat at. My parents live up here and are like plenty of fish in the sea they did not cause this problem. So far the new city sucks it's a slum and I hate it. Bsck in Phoenix I had friends good food and my gf. I really miss her and I feel like this is only going to drive me even closer to going insane. Like today in the store I was so angry shopping I rammed my cart into an old lady cart and said **** off. In az I was not like this I was friendly and got along with everyone. I was into truck pulls and rodeos and that does not go on up here. My dad says the neighborhood is starting to talk about how rude I am towards everyone else. I slammed the door in one kids face because he was trying to sell some candy or somthing I am very bitter and hate where I live will it get better or not my parents are like we will give you some money if you want to go back to Arizona if you just promise to not return we love you we just don't want to deal with this **** anymore my mom even got on the phone with my ex gf to get her to talk to me but she could not get threw. My dad even said we will bring her to town for a week if that's what it takes to end This

? · Accepted Answer

I see others agree with my "miss your gf, and are angry with her" idea.  But now you are throwing a temper tantrum and taking it out on everyone else.  That is not good.  Come or go, that is your choice, but please do not take your anger, frustration, and depression out on other people.  {In a word, you are homesick - i e you want things the way they were.}  I understand.  I was in the military 4 years, and not everything was to my liking.

NWIP · Answer

Your problem isn't about where you are, it is about YOU and the fact that your gf broke up with you.  The fact that she found someone else just 2 days after you broke up means that she was already looking when it happened.  Get counseling, write it out, do something or guess what it isn't going to end.   The fact that your parents are offering you money to move out means that you have some serious problems.

Are you in Bremerton or Seattle? Two different places.  Even Bremerton has different areas and some yes aren't the best but that happens in every city.  It definitely is not though ghetto and trashy.

What food are you eating? It isn't all seafood there are lots of others types to eat - Filipino, Hawaiian, Chinese, Cajun, American, and the list continues.  Don't like it EAT AT HOME, you don't need to go out all the time.

Wait how about you move back to Arizona because I definitely wouldn't want to deal with you

You and your gf already had issues so this relationship wasn't the best.  Being late all the time for an hour? Not willing to commit to visiting you when you are buying the ticket (which shouldn't be $1000 by the way). Especially since she is a Nurse - /question/index?qid=20150720183011AA6chTr

You also have other issues with your family.  You sound like a very ungrateful person who needs help. No wonder your parents are offering to send you home - /question/index?qid=20150506160611AAnWJhN
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? · Answer

Food S*cks? Uhm, you don't like seafood? If you're going to be miserable, go to some place you want to miserable at! I've lived in both places, Phoenix was a ghetto, hearing gun shots at night, fights breaking out in the streets. I've lived all over this country, Phoenix was one of the very few I don't care to return to. The summers are pathetic, worse than Vegas, and I live there also. I'd take Seattle.

Hugo90 · Answer

You are angry that she dumped you.  It's not Bremerton, it's all inside you.

Tori · Answer

Please go and don't let the door hit you in the a$$.

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