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Why isn't he returning my texts or reading them?

I've been talking to this guy who said he started to like me. We have never met, but he told me to visit him at work. I know this may sound crazy, but he asked me if i wanted to be his girl and he was really flirty and he replied asap al the time. At one point he sent me like a 2 page text telling me his intentions on how he wanted to hook up at first, but then he realized that he didn't just want to hook up with me. He said we'd look good together and that he won't hurt me. (yes he made several serious statements with periods at the end) and the last i checked, he still called me his baby, his princess and everything. He also invited me to stay with him over winter break cuz I don't have anywhere to live during the break and i didn't want to spend the time moving everything to my aunts and leaving it there. We also planned our date. I told him i might be gone for a bit for the winter and he said that he'll be sad when I'm gone. He also said that he felt like i didn't want to be in a relationship with him and I told him that I do. So out of nowhere, assuming we were going to be together, i invited him to go back to my hometown with me with those few days so we won't be separated. He said he liked my idea. and then, i moved here, and i told him. that morning, he was still normal, but then he stopped reading my messages and stopped replying. so i started to worry. I asked if everything was okay and that if he were uninterested, he should tell me so i leave him alone. what to do

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  • Lisa
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    How long was it since he last replied to your text? Was it only today? There may be a reasonable explanation. Maybe he left his phone home, it broke, it ran out of juice, he didn't pay his bill, etc etc. If it's been a few days...well, guys that run really hot like that tend to run really cold. You said you never even met him, and yet he was that involved that fast. That's a huge red flag. Guys like that, they're like a kid with a shiny new toy that they play with and get sick of and then just abandon in search of another new toy. And the fact that he kept telling you he won't hurt you is a red flag...usually when someone says things that should be no brainers...I'm honest, I never lie, I don't cheat...etc etc....it means they totally do, because why would they need to tell someone they don't. You probably dodged a bullet.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Well, there are two possibilities for the silence. Either he's having second thoughts about you, or he genuinely has a problem with his phone. Please don't make any assumptions until you have all the facts. Please speak to him when you get the chance. It's important to ascertain the underlying reasons before you take decision.

    I hope this helps.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Don't waste time on men like him. They are time wasters.

    Spend your time having fun, and a decent man will come along soon enough.

    But seriously, this guy doesn't sound that interested in you anymore.

    Good luck!

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