I need advice, I'm confused,?

If you got engaged 6 years ago, and there still isn't a wedding, that should have been a red flag. He doesn't want to commit to you, for whatever reason. You shouldn't be engaged more than 2 years. It doesn't take 6 years to get married and/or have a nice wedding. If you can't afford a wedding 2 years after you get engaged, you were too young/not stable enough.

And you plan on getting married to him...? Call of the wedding talk with him and have a very serious and long conversation about where you two feel you both are in the relationship. Maybe he's just lost the love he once had for you and wants to move on.

Obviously he is a mean spirited person, I would be to if I was disabled. You have sacrificed so much to take care of this person and then he insults you. He is not worth staying with his body may not be functioning properly but his mind is in the wrong place. Whether you are handicapped or not there is no excuse to be mean spirited or hurtful to a friend or someone that loves you. I would take him for a long walk and then leave him there that should snap him back to reality

Oh I would want to know why the x is an x? Did she leave him before or after the incident? He is delusional.

Oh he thinks she would have cared for him for nothing. what a jerk. Money for settlements like this are for the further care of the person hurt not so they can live a life of luxury.

He sound depressed and ungrateful. Let him get someone else to care for him full time.

Being in a wheelchair doesn't mean a man can't be a thoughtless pig. Why have you been engaged six years?

He had no right top say that. If he doesnt appreciate you then its time to leave him and you go ahead and find someone who does care about you.This is a dealbreaker situation. It doesnt matter what excuses he comes up with for that so walk away with pride and you find someone genuine to love. You need someone who can be there for you in your life so dont deprive yourself of being happy in your heart. Whatever is missing in your life I hope you'll find someone special to share your life. Its time for you to think about your own life and be in a better place for your own sake.

That's cruel to talk that way. But he is depressed. So self pity and all that ! Forgive him. He knows your value but frustrating talk! It is easy to say leave him, but staying with him in difficult time will prove your nobility!

Ask him what made him to make that statement .Tell him that if he is not happy with you , you are prepared to leave him . He can be in a dream world with his ex wife . He looks an ungreatful person not worth thinking about .

Ask him which EX does he mean, You or Her? Then POP one of his tires next, leave rocks and small sticks all over the floor in the house!!!! LOL Go get your hair and nails done. That will give him some time to reflect,,,,

That does not sound nice of him at all. YOU are the one who is with him now, so you should be his #1 priority and #1 person in his life. I would maybe talk to him more and see what he meant to seek clarity (if you are confused).

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