My mom barely appreciates anything I do?

This has been really bugging me. Let me give you an example.

I did the dishes without even being told. Mom: "Why are the cups so far apart? You know, I should've just done them myself."

I do the dishes another time without being told. Mom: "Why did you put the bowls on the top? If I had just done them myself I would've been better off."

I always tell her stuff like: "If I don't do the dishes, you complain, and if I do the dishes, you complain. What do you want???" Sometimes I tell her that I don't wanna do the dishes anymore since it's not making a difference whether I do them or not, because she's gonna complain and yell either way. She replies: "You purposely screw up the dishes just so that you don't have to do them anymore."

I basically do chores that she doesn't even tell me to do just to be nice and male things easier on her, and instead of a thank you she just starts complaining. That way, she gets her chores done and at the same time wants to make me feel as if I did nothing.

Once she was talking to my aunt on the phone: "She can never do the dishes right. She always puts them in the dishwasher and they're so dirty." I told her to take a picture of the dishes and send them to my aunt and to let my aunt decide if they're dirty or not. Mom: "Well for some reason they're clean today." Yeah, even though the dishes are perfectly clean, she just has to make it look like I did nothing.

I'm about to just stop doing the dishes, either way she's going to complain. Advice?