Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

? asked in HealthMen's Health · 6 years ago

Just had sex, why didn't it feel good?

I'm 19 and just had sex. Although I can say I've FINALLY had sex, it was no where near pleasurable like I would've thought. It was also way more tiring than I thought lol. But anyways, maybe it was the condom that inhibited the pleasure? My penis isn't the biggest (3-4in) so maybe the the condom was too big? I was using the blue wrapper trojan condoms btw, if anybody knows a smaller and thinner type then let me know. But anyways for me the penetration kinda felt like ******* two pillows or balloons. Maybe I was too nervous? Maybe it was the fact that I wasn't holding in my breath? Maybe its the fact that this is my first time and its normal for it to feel wierd for the first time? I personally think the reason it didn't feel good was because of the condom, a bit of nervousness, me not holding my breath, some of the positions were too tiring to do, and that this was my first time.

2 Answers

Relevance
  • 6 years ago

    I would say that it is because of all those things that you said. However, the first time is rarely as fun as you think it is going to be. That's because everything is a bit awkward. You're not sure what to do, what exactly you like, what you don't like, and what your partner likes and doesn't like. Just like anything else, it takes practice and repetition to get good at it.

    By the way, unless you want kids, I wouldn't stop using the condom, unless your partner is already on some sort of birth control. Even then, it can't hurt to be extra careful.

  • James
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    did your foreskin go all the way down. it couuld of been painful for that

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.