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Girlfriend takes a while to respond sometimes?

I feel like I am going crazy just because I think about all this too much... But I am in a near perfect relationship if I don t take into factor these kind of problems, but I know she would never cheat or anything like that same goes for myself.

But for this instance she sometimes will take a while to respond which is fine because she is busy doing something, but then I will notice her on Facebook or liking pictures or something and then won t text for a bit longer... I did confront her a couple times which I regret because it makes me look crazy and she gets mad at me lol. She always says she didn t see my texts and I get mad because I don t understand how she doesn t if they show up on her screen.

For example she s shopping and texted me an hour later I didn t get a response but then i checked Facebook and said she was online 15 minutes ago. I just don t understand why its so hard to send a text or if someone could really not see the texts this often?

Like I said I feel crazy for these things and wish I could stop but it bothers me..

Update:

Let me clarify: I responded to her text over an hour ago but said she was on facebook ~15-20 mins ago

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    You need to chill. She has every right to not respond to your texts right away, whether or not she sees them right away or not. You don't need to be in constant contact with her, and you certainly don't need to be stalking her on social media. If you need to, turn your ringer on high, send a text and then flip your phone over. You'll hear it when he texts. Resist the temptation to stalk her or double text. Do other things, don't just sit there and wait.

    This ultimately could end your relationship if you can't reel it in.

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