Mike

I don't even know where to begin. Ever meet a girl that makes you smile every time you see her? Even after months and months... Since February (with summer off) this girl and I have been seeing each other and grew a truly amazing connection together, a connection that seems like it will never be broken even with years and years to come.

She has been having a lot of anxiety lately which is stopping her from getting into a relationship with me. I've been with her on these talks a few times, she cries and says she cannot lose me. But we both know that its not fair for me to drag along myself like that, even though I didn't care and wanted to be with her over my lack of self-respect.

This girl wanted to see how she felt during a trip away from myself to see if the anxiety would be worse from missing me. I guess it didn't treat her well? We were supposed to meet tonight to talk and sleep over, but she flaked out because she couldn't handle the angsty feeling. This led me to telling her it's probably best we stopped seeing each other so she can help her feelings out, she has been seeing a therapist as well. She constantly smiles around me, constantly tells me how amazing and good I am to her, and how she's never met someone like myself and can't fathom to ever lose me.

There's so much more to this girl that I am leaving out, but I can't even stand to see it end like this without even really starting.

Do you believe in love coming back to you?

So my ex gf broke up with me about 6 months ago and not a day goes by I don t think of her, and I know this has to be her too. I had insecurities that got the best of me..

Anyways she would contact me seeing how I m doing here and there (maybe about every month) and it would be short sometimes her not continuing the conversation. We were each others first real relationship (I m 23, she s 19..now), as well as I was her first sexual experience. But I truly feel that we are meant to be, don t know when again but I do feel this. Being that it has been about 6 months and still have these feelings I wonder if I should try and meet up and possibly have a talk with her about my feelings still. I at least want to know if I am just having useless thoughts as to find out if she really doesn t care anymore in that way. I know she cares for me otherwise she wouldn t be asking me how I am doing.. But on the other hand I really don t see us being friends anytime soon especially with my feelings still...

She also re-added me on snapchat but still follows me on every other social media and keeps up all our photos. Not that it all matters.

Ok so about a month ago my gf wanted a break with me. I realized what I ve done wrong and my insecurities got to me, but I loved her like no other, she was so pure to me, precious, sweet, innocent, cute, list goes on.

Now we got to a point were I gave her some time and had little talks here and there but it was never a fight, only just seeing how we re doing and talking about us. But I ve been working on myself a lot, and I mean doing a lot better than I was and I wanted another chance. I think I might get it, but might have to wait until after graduation (around another month).

The thing is I don t know what will happen in that time, at the moment (through social media) it seems like she s having confrontations with this guy. They hung out when her parents were on vacation a week since our break and she lied and said she "went to bed" but found out he was over, she said she didn t want to hurt my feelings which I just tried to be positive. But now I see him saying stuff on social media like "I hate seeing people move on but maybe its for the best" blah blah blah (although her sister was in a breakup same time as us, and he liked her before). But we talked a little sunday/monday and she changed her status to hidden instead of in a relationship with me and changed her profile pic also... I ve taken it as in we are done, but she said nothing has changed and time is best for us right now, considering I said I wouldn t be home until graduation. I just don t know what to think..

I have hurt the love of my life and caused her to want a break, she is the most amazing thing to ever happen to me, so sweet, innocent, loving, and all about me. She would NEVER do anything to cheat or dishonor our loyalty towards each other and I am the same way.

But recently my insecurities got the best of me and it really upset her and pushed her away and she wanted a break because of it. Now she isn't going to remove any pictures or change anything because it really isn't a breakup its more so to just have some space to clear our minds and get back on track.

Now I read things about the no contact rule, but our relationship is more than that, and she has been texting me and I have just been telling her of my steps forward in bettering myself and she's just really hurt and just so proud of me and still says she loves me. But she still does keep in contact, so is it ok to continue to text her back? I don't want to not answer her for days or anything like that since she's the one contacting me, but I also don't want to just answer back right away and seem needy. Advice? Thanks!

I just got off the phone with the greatest girl that I will ever be with in my entire life. She is so perfect to me and precious... I ruined what good we had together. It has been a little over a year and I ve let my insecurities get the best of me. I trusted her with other people, but I guess (and she s right after we talk) I do get upset sometimes when she s with others and does things with others and sometimes shows more attention to them than with me. I ve gotten worked up about social media, which is so stupid now that I think about it. But we honest were the perfect couple, we had such great families that loved us as a couple and we just had so many memories together and she just made me so happy when I was around, but I messed up...

We just got off the phone a little ago and she wants a break.. She says she doesn t want to do this but its best for her and the relationship and for me to work on myself considering Im graduating soon and kinda need to get things together.

I cannot lose her, I am such an impatient person and never had a relationship before and this was just perfect until these fights recently and it really is about my insecurities... She really does love me so much and as do I, and she s not interested in others but just needs space...

Advice please..!? I honestly cannot picture my life ever loving another woman as much as her or having a life as good as it would be with her. I m so broken and I know she is too :/

I was going to make chocolate covered strawberries for my gf but was wondering if it s a good idea to give it to her sister too for valentines since she just broke up with her bf as a nice gesture. I don t want to reveal what I m doing for my gf but should I mention it to her before I do it or if I should do it? I wanted it to be a surprise for my gf but also don t really want it to be a surprise for her that I m giving them to her sister..

I feel like I am going crazy just because I think about all this too much... But I am in a near perfect relationship if I don t take into factor these kind of problems, but I know she would never cheat or anything like that same goes for myself.

But for this instance she sometimes will take a while to respond which is fine because she is busy doing something, but then I will notice her on Facebook or liking pictures or something and then won t text for a bit longer... I did confront her a couple times which I regret because it makes me look crazy and she gets mad at me lol. She always says she didn t see my texts and I get mad because I don t understand how she doesn t if they show up on her screen.

For example she s shopping and texted me an hour later I didn t get a response but then i checked Facebook and said she was online 15 minutes ago. I just don t understand why its so hard to send a text or if someone could really not see the texts this often?

Like I said I feel crazy for these things and wish I could stop but it bothers me..

Ok so I've had feelings for this girl over summertime I've met and ended up having sex. In the end she ended up being a party girl looking to just have fun what it seems. Months later she started favoriting my tweets which we never really talk. But I wanna start talking to her to basically get back to having fun (sex) with her. Would that be apporopriate since she's like a party/go to concert kinda girl. Like she likes to have fun and I wanna start having fun with her again!

So me and this girl I like recently have been drifting apart...what I think is because we're over 130 miles apart (I'm at college and she's at a community college) but I'm roommates with her brother. Anyways this or guy came into the picture but I don't think he's a problem.. We made out a few times (for a while) and recently he kicked me off her best friend snap chats. She still replies to my tweets and sometimes sends me a snap first.

Anyways I was thinking of texting her saying "whenever I get back, can we go for a ride??...anywhere you love doesn't matter to me" and I wanted to tell her how I feel and see what she thinks of me. But worst case scenario I don't want her to blow me off and make things weird this ruining things between me and her brother..

Thoughts??? Ps. I really like her and she just tweeted something saying how how you find out you don't mean anything to someone you thought you did which I hope she wasn't talking about me because I did everything right to her...

So my roomate's sister recently came up 2 separate weekends and she stayed in bed with me, only thing that happened was we made out for a while both times. The most recent time I told her I like her which she replied and said good so we continued to kiss...

Anyways it seems like its dying now since she left back home sunday. I do not have her number we just snap chat really and she doesn't reply as much now..

So should I talk to my roommate and see if he knows anything? Also just to let him know I like her which I'm sure he knows since she slept with me both times. I just really don't want her to slip away everything was perfect up until the last time I saw her..

Long story short made out with this girl on 2 separate occasions told her i liked her when making out she said good. After that day its been dying down, she kinda is ignoring me a little (basically through snap chat) like she used to show her face and snap back right away and it was fun.. Now she hasn't showed her face and sometimes won't reply..

I strongly feel that she likes me but idk, theres more to it than just that but thats the short story.

So while making out in my bed, (of my roommates sister) I stopped and told her I liked her then kissed again and right after she said "good" then continued kissing. Am I just over thinking or could that mean something? I swear she is in to me but once she left since she visited us it seems like its dying out... idk..

Like a lot of stories, theres this girl.. My roommates sister to be exact. My roommate and myself are good friends I've know her for years but never really talked to her until this year and recently hooked up twice two separate weekends (sober) but just slept in my bed and made out. So I know there has to be something there, but anyways I told her I liked her while making out and she replied with "good" smiled deeply and kept making out. Not sure what to make of it now.

But my question, this happened sat into sun. Even though its only monday but it seems like things are dying down.. I did nothing wrong... made her laugh had a good time when she came up to visit.. I don't want to wait til thanksgiving to actually talk to her again but I also don't want to keep insisting on snapping her. I do not have her number I don't want to ask and seem desperate, we talk through twitter sometimes and snap a lot..

Sorry this is long but suggestions to what she might think and where to go about?

I've known this girl for some time, I'm good friends with her brother (roommates aswell). Anyways we all drank at a tailgate and towards the end she ended up all over me holding me and making out a little here and there. Went to the game, while they went back to the apartment. Hours later I get home and she was sleeping in my bed, I hop in and then eventually we make out for a bit. Didn't wanna try anything behind her brothers back, even though I knew she wanted to! But do you think this means anything? She into me? I always had a thing for her but kept my distance, and now that this happened I don't know where to take it. She lives back at home where we live a couple hours away.. Advice? See I'm not sure if drinking did anything, but I mean this was like 6 hours later when I cam back, but I am human and I think too much..

Background: Haven't worked out really since high school, 21 male about 6'5 around 185 lbs. Athletic, currently playing soccer.

But I just started working out (3rd day) by doing 60 push ups, 60 sit ups, 60 squats (with 2 ten lb weights) and also just 40 reps with them (20 each arm). I do these all in 20 rep sessions take a min break then do the next.

What I want to know how long should I do this until I should start using the gym and doing more? Also! what protein or vitamin should I look for to start taking each day? And what foods should I really avoid? Basically the essentials to working out!

Thanks very much appreciated!!

Background: met this girl at a concert about a month ago went out on a date the next weekend hit it off made out that and the next day for a good while, so there was definitely a connection.

Anyways I am talking I her now and she's one of those doe hard harry styles girls.. And it gets brought up and she basically says she would let him do anything to her and also she might meet them and she would probably just undress in front of him, typical girls I guess.

But for no instance do you say that to a guy you're talking to.. I don't know where to go that was such a vibe kill.. I really do like her and she's on vacation for 3 weeks and we have plans for when she gets back in a couple days but all that vining just shot but I still wanna be with her..

How should I go about this, just talk to her normally again or is there something I should do like start being sexual to her idk help? Thanks!

Ok so long story short I made a deal with this girl I'm talking to, basically she gets to dye my hair when she gets back from vacation (temporary) but I said she could only if she would take the risk and see what I have in store for her... Little does she know I don't have anything hahah. I have 2 weeks but any ideas what a good trade off would be??

So I've gotten to know this girl for a week and she goes on vacation for 3... But anyways I open up and tell her I like her (even though she knows) and what she sees from us, but in a way better fashion. Basically said don't want to rush anything and just want to make sure she's interested for when she comes back. She responds throughout texting like: I like you too but I'm not sure what I want and she also says she's looking forward to being with me when she gets back.

What does this mean for a guy? Not sure what she's looking for but likes me.. Hah any ideas? Ps still have 2 weeks to go.. But I'm completely fine with waiting and don't want anything to go stale. Ideas!

Ok so what is the best way to talk to a girl you have relations with (not in a relationship yet)? Could I just straight up ask what her past has been like.. Because she told me stories about her sister basically a slut... I just don't want to be another number and find out she sleeps with guys all the time, idk could be me.. Ideas?

Ok so I'm new to guitars but love the one Jack Tatum uses here, he makes his own music (Wild Nothing) and I recommend viewing his work! Awesome stuff.. But yea can anyone tell what guitar this is?? Thanks!

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