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She wants to take a break?
I just got off the phone with the greatest girl that I will ever be with in my entire life. She is so perfect to me and precious... I ruined what good we had together. It has been a little over a year and I ve let my insecurities get the best of me. I trusted her with other people, but I guess (and she s right after we talk) I do get upset sometimes when she s with others and does things with others and sometimes shows more attention to them than with me. I ve gotten worked up about social media, which is so stupid now that I think about it. But we honest were the perfect couple, we had such great families that loved us as a couple and we just had so many memories together and she just made me so happy when I was around, but I messed up...
We just got off the phone a little ago and she wants a break.. She says she doesn t want to do this but its best for her and the relationship and for me to work on myself considering Im graduating soon and kinda need to get things together.
I cannot lose her, I am such an impatient person and never had a relationship before and this was just perfect until these fights recently and it really is about my insecurities... She really does love me so much and as do I, and she s not interested in others but just needs space...
Advice please..!? I honestly cannot picture my life ever loving another woman as much as her or having a life as good as it would be with her. I m so broken and I know she is too :/
Update to the first response: But the thing is, it wasn't her liking other guys pictures or anything like that, I would get annoyed that she didn't give me much attention on it as in like post pictures of us or tag me in things, its such an immature thing to think about now, but she was so loving and would never do anything to dishonor our relationship as in like other guys' personal things that would be flirty. I messed up completely on this one and trying to do whats best and give her space
1 Answer
- 5 years ago
I know this probably isn't what you want to hear. But I'll tell you from my experience. My ex and I broke up a few months months ago because of the same reason. I really did love him more than anything. But I overreacted when he looked at other girls, about social media, and I was very insecure. We had broken up multiple times because of it. Even though I loved him and wanted to marry him it wouldn't work out because nothing I did stopped my jealousy and insecurity. He just made me psycho and I can't explain why. I'm with another guy now and I don't get jealous or insecure at all. And I really care about this guy. I'm truly happy. I have the feeling of love without jealousy. There's certain people that bring those feelings out of other certain people, no matter how much love there is, it's toxic. I was in your situation, don't let yourself go through this pain for a relationship that won't work. It's not worth it.
