What should I do for my party?

I'm turning 13 and having a a hotel party. Three of my friends are coming and they're polar opposites. One is really immature, one is downright nuts, and one is a goth, while I'm a total fangirl. I want to find something that's fun for everyone. My mom wants to do makeovers but me and two other people won't be into that at all, but if I want to have a movie marathon no one else will want to watch what I do. I know it's my party, but it won't be fun if no one likes what we're doing. Also, some of my friends can get really cranky and act like total jerks when they're tired, and one goes to sleep really early while the rest of us like to stay up late. I don't want that one girl to miss out because she falls asleep at 8 o clock sharp, but I also don't want to force my freinds into going to bed really really early. Even food is an issue- One has a dairy intolerance, so no pizza. One has a peanut allergy, so no Chinese food (most of it is cooked in peanut oil). One is gluten free. I have none of that. Also,one can be really sensitive and not get the others sarcastic jokes or whatever. I just want this to be a fun party and not exclude anyone, but we're all so different that's hard to do. Any advice?