My wife is an alcoholic, gambler and tramp. She abuse my son regularly. How do I reestablish with my 12 year old son.?

What do you mean "re-establish"? If you've sat by while all this was going on, you're as bad of a father as she is a mother.

The answer here is obvious. Talk to an attorney about getting full custody. This really didn't even occur to you?

divorce her, You need to take your son away from her immediately. In this critical period (childhood and puberty) a lot of who your son is, personality and identity wise will develop. Under such conditions as abuse, he may become an abuser himself as he gets older, or he may suffer from depression, ....etc. It is not a good environment for a child to grow up in

If you are a real father you will stand up for your son

by taking a lawyer and making sure

your ex is loosing custody of this poor child

Divorce your wife? Why are you married to someone you call a tramp? Tell the courts taht and get custody

sounds like this may have evolved into more than you bargained for.. if she was better than you, how would it make you fell.. better thank "god" she's not. you need to document what's going on and get money for lawyers and know the law.. I'm not saying study the law, that takes along time.. better move with a quicknness

Divorce her and have her put in jail. If she is an abuser then you definitely need to take custody of your son.

Write him an apology note, I find that 9.5x/10 written explanations go a lot further than verbally expressing oneself.

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I am giving her twice the child support that was agreed on. That would be like me not giving her any. She still can not manage money and spends it on liquor and gig lows.

first of all, you need to leave your wide you are not setting a good example to your son.

By spending time together.