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Should I really bother doing speed dating if I'm a virgin waiting until marriage to have sex?

While there are girls who would be willing to wait for a guy, it seems the world has become completely polluted in their minds that someone has to have sex with them before marriage otherwise they won't continue in the relationship. I personally think that's shallow as people can miss out on the positive influence people can rub off on others.

Now to my concern. I want to do this speed dating thing in a few weeks where I have the opportunity to go on 30 dates each 3 minutes each on December 20. The thing is I feel I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, because I haven't had any luck on any of the religious dating sites I've tried and if I do the speed dating thing I might start dating them long term only to find out they refuse to not wait until marriage to have sex. That's why I'm hesitant to meet people in person, because it's hard to find very religious people other than a youth group, which is generally only for people age 25 or younger. What do you think I should do? Should I do the speed dating thing?

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  • 5 years ago

    leave the online and speed dating alone. They are all expecting someone who is going to have sex...the attractive ones anyway. Pace yourself and don't think about dating. Someone will come along and you can take it slow until you are comfortable enough to have sex or they are comfortable enough to want to wait until marriage with you. It is important that when you start dating and it seems to go well after a couple dates that you let them know you are a virgin and not planning on having sex until marriage. some dudes might run, but that's ok. dont feel pressured to go back on ur decision cuz of a dude that can't live without sex or is afraid of potential commitment he will just end up cheating or you will force yourself to sleep with him just to keep him. chill. relax. you will find someone.

  • fayte
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Why not, it's not like you have to continue dating anybody there. You know what you want and so just remember what you are there for and don't sell your self short out of desperation

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