What is the difference between God and an abusive husband?

You can leave an abusing husband. But God will make you suffer for eternity

Abusive husbands do exist.

God is omnibenevolent and a person can better comprehend this mystery by saying daily and with care 7 Hail Marys, one each while meditating on each of the Seven Sorrows of the Blessed Virgin. Further information about this devotion can be found online.

The Bible, Ouran, and Torah were written by men.

So it is not a coincidence that many abusive men are religious.

The worse of these men are in the position of authority.

We would still be here if we didn't have an abusive spouse

But

We wouldn't be here if it wasn't for God or if God didn't exist.

Big difference.

And he's not abusive. People make him out to be abusive dependent on their interpretation of the bible or pre conceived ideas of the bible. I think that he will be more loving and forgiving than any of us give him credit for.

Just my opinion. Each to their own

God is perfect - and immortal

Deu 32:4 He is the Rock, his work is perfect: for all his ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is he.

1Ti 1:17 Now unto the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only wise God, be honour and glory for ever and ever. Amen.

The abusive husband is mortal and bound for hell - unless he repents

And so are you......

Eze 33:11 Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die?

That means that your eternal fate is entirely up to YOU

God loves you and the absuive husband does not. God is holy and the abusive husband is a useless coward. Just divorce the abusive husband. I would.

Atheists don't devote their whole life against an abusive husband

The difference is as far as east is from west. You are not describing God, your describing your flawed mental picture of God.

Abusive husbands are real.