Should I take the opportunity or not?

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There is this girl I have a crush on. She had a boyfriend who cheated on her and yet she still forgave him.When they broke up, I tried to ask her to go out with me. Things seem to be going well, until she told me she loved someone else  (her ex), and never saw her again. Couple of weeks ago she texted me saying that she made a big mistake and that she wanted the things to work out well between us. I said yes and things seem to be working well. Today she told me she is falling in love with me because of the way I am (a caring, lovely, and supporting guy whom she can trust no matter what). What should I do? Do I take the chance knowing that she might hurt my feelings again?

nada · Answer

you take the lead here. i m a passerby who dont know the real you.

there are some parts here, your feeling, your mind, her feeling, and her mind. for the first two, you could write down on your diary and read it tomorrow, you should know the answer then. for the other two, you can go ask her directly, not on the phone or internet..

Yasmeen · Answer

Life is all about experiences and risks. If she hurts you, she hurts you. Life is full of disappointments, but it also has its upsides. I say to continue with it, you never know where it will lead.

But what do I know? I'm only 16.

Waterdragon · Answer

if you have to ask then you really dont like her ---- we are talking feelings not decisions ---- you dont decide to fall in love it happens ---- it happens quickly ---- you also have time to realise you are falling in love ---- you fall in love then realise it ---- if you care about her keep dating if you are so ambivalent then end it clean and forever

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Should I take the opportunity or not?

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