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Why's life hard?
Hi i am a 15 year old guy called Harry. I play sports such as football etc and work out at the gym etc. As a person I feel that I have a good head on my shoulders when it comes to making decisions. I try and be nice and civil and am not a bad guy such as going out and drinking, smoking or doing drugs or in general doing bad things. I have a nice group of friends and a good family. However when it comes to me being liked, not a lot of people in my age group like me because i dont go out and do ****. It includes girls as well, I mean I see nice looking girls and they go out with guys who are neds or the ones that are ripped with six packs and are complete arseholes. And I think, why? I mean im ok looking but try and be as good as a person as possible like looking after myslef, working hard in school. I'm liked by people a lot older than me probably people over 20. It just seems that i dont fit in my age group as i mostly hang around people older than me like my parents etc. I rarely get invited to parties and feel left out. So just what am i doing wrong?
Plus it feels as if im boring etc
Plus its hard when looking at the pretty girls yet the act like dicks to me and other people
3 Answers
- Anonymous5 years ago
Your age is a hard age. I very hard age. Many of us do not do well around age 15.
Here is my suggestion. Look around and see who else does not seem to have friends. If they are sitting alone in the lunch room, or they are chosen last for sports. Go over and start talking. Find our what they like to do and things like that. With girls, look past how pretty they are now. Many develop late and change anyway. Pick out a just OK looking girl who smiles but does not have a boyfriend and just start smiling sand saying hello. Once you get some friends of both sexes (just 3 or 4 are fine)..you can go from there.
Good luck..you are not alone.
- 5 years ago
Feeling like you belong is tough, especially during highschool. Don't worry about it too much, yeah? There's nothing wrong with you.
Try to just talk to people and get to know them. Get some good friends and start inviting them somewhere. You'll start getting invited to their parties and such soon enough.
- 5 years ago
Life is not hard for you. You need to build some discipline. Maybe you need to get a six pack and some money,