How do I get over this?

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I'm in love with this guy but things never really worked out after he found out I liked him. He liked me back but I was confused and long story short, we ended up on and off friends, depending on when he'd actually talk to me. But I'm the kind of person who can't get over something until I've confronted the person and gotten their point of view. It's been two years, he's liked other people, and I haven't. And we haven't spoken in months because I moved, and I haven't been able to have feelings for anyone else because I only want him. He's by far one of the most amazing people I've ever met. I always feel like I'm cheating on my own heart if I start to feel something, anything, for someone else. And I've literally tried so hard not to love him. But it's too late to talk about things. I'll seem pathetic, and he's changed so much since then. Does anyone have suggestions on what I could possibly do to lose feelings for him?

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While you say its too late for talking things over, I think maybe confronting him and telling him how you feel may help release all the built up emotions for you. I don't think you will seem pathetic; if anything it will appear as if you are being brave and proactive! Its takes courage to do this sort of thing. Another alternative is to start seeing other people. There is a saying that goes "nothing gets you over the last one like the next one" and it holds a certain degree of truth to it. Maybe if you started seeing someone else, you might develop feelings for that person and eventually forget about this guy - just a suggestion though. Hope I helped.

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