Rate these relationship offences according to their seriousness 1 to 10, 10 = worst?

A) Snapping/ yelling at your partner constantly over minor things to the point they feel like they are walking on eggshells around you.

B) Calling them too submissive where other people can hear what you just said to them.

C) Being creepy and taking secret videos and photos of your partner knowing the would object. (like zooming in on legs, butt, sleeping pics, etc.; no public sharing or nudity was involved)

D) Saying you won't stay with them because they want to pursue the career they like and you don't like their choice (like if they wanted to join the military, etc.)

5) Cheating (obvious but but I added that for the sake of comparison)