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Ladies, if you are young and not yet married and have kids, but you DO want them, which of these scenarios would you rather be in?

1. You fall madly and deeply in love with a man, but he doesn't want children or marriage. He is adamant about that. So you stay with him anyway, despite really wanting to be married and eventually wanting kids.

2. You SETTLE and end up marrying another man. You love him of course, but you still TRULY love the other guy in the deepest part of your self, and have to live with the pain knowing your heart will always yearn for another.

Pick one

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  • Do
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    The second. It is impossible to really, madly and deeply love someone who has such a different outlook on life. Infatuation comes and goes; I'd forget about the first guy over time. I wouldn't "live with the pain knowing your heart will always yearn for another". This sh*t simply does not happen. Those we live with become the most important people; they become family. I could fall in love with a guy, but if we don't form a family, he will soon be just a dude I used to know.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I marry the first one and make him want kids

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