What do you women do to keep things alive between you? Do you initiate things , dress up etc ? Mine doesn't seem to do any . Thanks?

Really very little of any of that. We are passionate partners, been a couple for 32 years, On a theoretic blue moon we eat mushrooms and blow our socks off, mostly we simply have grown to be together, a unit, pleasure no longer requires make believe. Pleasure as sheer pleasure works.

I do all the above and some..... there are no limitations on our sex life except adding others to the party.