I don't know if I'm going to be okay?

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I'm at a really complicated point in my life right now. I'm 18, graduating high school in less than a month, and I really do not know if I'm going to be okay.

First off, I recently found out that the guy I'm in love with has only been using me for sex and money, and after our last conversation I'm pretty sure he hates me. Second, all of my friends are going away for college and I'm the only one going to a local school, so I don't know what I'm going to do in a couple months. I'm not good at making friends and I'm not overly likable or approachable (no matter how hard I try to be). Having no friends around also means that I won't be able to get an apartment with anyone (I can't afford rent on my own), so basically I can't move out, and I don't want to be stuck in my parent's house forever.

I feel like this should be a happy time in my life, but all I feel is pain, loneliness and hopelessness and I honestly am not seeing a way out. I mean, am I going to be okay, because right now it doesn't seem like it.

felicia · Accepted Answer

I feel man , like the guy I was with before I graduated highschool was a douche bag to the T , I had no plan really ( so you beat me there lol) , I had no job or any thing really . But now I'm with a great guy , I leave for the navy I'm a couple of weeks and lastly I'm just happy . It took me time to take the steps I needed to take , but I did it , and I'm still doing it . Men come and go in life , so remember your the smartest creature on this planet , a human . As a human you have the power to figure out what you want and how to get there so take a sit with yourself , drink some coffee and analyze what you need to do in order to get where you want to be in life . You have a long life ahead dude so remember it takes baby steps and patience , you got this !

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