Who was right? And is there favouritism? My brother has ADHD so i guess he's mor important.?

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so my mom was downstairs, and I was upstairs in my room listening to music, and my brother was in his doing whatever, and she asked my brother if he wanted to, and he said no, which I didn't hear, then she asked me if I wanted to throw out the trash, and I said no because I was doing something and usually my brother does it, so she got super pissed and called us both down. And started yelling at me for not doing anything and not cleaning the trash, and then I kept telling her I didn't hear that my brother wasn't going to do it, and then she hit me with the broom stick, and started yelling at me, and then my brother yelled to me " stop nagging and shut the help up" , so I told him to stop yelling, but he wouldn't so I shouted at him to stop yelling, and my mom got mad at for yelling, so she tried to hit me again, so i told her it was unfair, and she got really mad at me and kept trying to hit me so I ran up into my room, and she came in and told me I was crazy and that i make everyone crazy.

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give honest opinion pls

♠ Merlin ♠ · Accepted Answer

Your mother handled things very badly
she should not be hitting you, if she cannot communicate effectively  without resorting to violence, she needs parenting classes
Your brother may have ADHD but he will be capable of putting out trash

She made a mistale of asking
She should have a chore chart and you each have a fair share in chores
in your shoes? I would make one
what are the things she gets you to do other than trash? dishes? cleaning?
make a chart, divide the chores between you FAIRLY
and go show her, tell her you devised this so that kind of situation wont happen again

you and your brother SHOULD be doing chores
so you might as well do them fairly

Star_of_Darkness · Answer

So you are a brat who refuses to do chores and back talks and acts entitled and you blame it on your bother and claim favoritism when mommy properly punishes you for being a brat

You never do as told, you don't do chores, you blame things on your bother and pretend you dont hear her and she smacked you like a good mother.

Its not unfair.

Stop being a brat and she needs to smack you more

Emily J · Answer

She should not ask she should tell, that would clear up alot of confusion.  Also I like the idea of a chore chart, to clear up the confusion as well, it can change from week to week depending.

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Who was right? And is there favouritism? My brother has ADHD so i guess he's mor important.?

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