GoFundMe question?

1.) If I share a gofund me page to my Facebook the day of my suicide do you think people would donate to my daughter's savings account. 2.) Is there a way if any one did donate some could go into her savings and some could go into the hands of my dad and her father's mom. 3.) I trust her dad and her future step mom to take care of her but I only trust my dad and his mom to make sure the money if donated was to her benefit; not cigs, beer, or going out. 4.) I know money can't make a dent in the adversity I will be putting her through but besides money, lots of personal letters and videos to her, I don't know what else to leave for her. And is it selfish to think people would donate to her?