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Why do Thai women love to betray men so much?

I was in a relationship with a Thai woman 7 years ago. When I went to Thailand to spend time with her in 2011, she was no longer in love with me until I called her one night and her man answered the phone.

Now I have another Thai girlfriend who I have known for about 4 years. I met her here in Korea, but then in the fall of 2014 I found out that she got deported because she was working illegally in Korea (blame her Korean employer). So lasy year I went to see her twice, I saw her and spent time with her in Phuket during the Chinese New Year holidays, and I went to Vientienne, Laos last summer to spend time with her as she was getting ready to leave Vientienne to go back to Thailand.

I have been calling her and text messaging her, and it's been a year since I have not seen her. My contract in Korea will be over in 3 months and I plan to go to Thailand to spend time with her. But the last time I heard from her was last week Friday. She claims to be too busy at work.

Is my current girlfriend betryaing me? If so why do so many Thai women do this? Is this some amorality they have in their culture or what?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    No one here can tell you if she is or not cheating on you. Everything she says maybe true. But yes you should be concern. It is not like it hasn't happen to other guys here as you must know. You will be able to tell better once you get here and look her in the eyes.

  • Gee
    Lv 5
    5 years ago

    If you cannot maintain a permanent, close relationship with your Thai girlfriend, nor have a clue how the two of you can be together, as in living together in the foreseeable future, then it is going to be a dangerous affair. In my experience, long distance Thai-Falang relationships do not work very well, so better to go and have a little fun whilst in Thailand, then forget all when you depart. There will be far less headaches that way.

    Otherwise, you need to come up with a plan how you and your girlfriend (prosperous wife) can live and be together, whether in Thailand or in your country.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    No offense but it's kinda rude to generalize women like that. Not all thai women are carbon copies of each other so don't judge a population of millions from a person or two. No one really can tell you what's going on and you need to figure it out yourself. And forget that all thai women are gold diggers. Some are, some aren't - completely immature to group genders and race like that.

  • 5 years ago

    2, you knew 2. rather unfair to generalize all of them dont you think.

    Also how many long distance relationships have you had, most end up the same way, No matter the nationality nor sex (M/F).

    These are grown women they probably had relationships before where the guy promised this and that but never delivered, never showed up, had other relationships etc etc.

    While I lived there I saw lots, the farang who is overseas will have a thai GF. He would promise her all sorts of things, take you to my country or I will move to thailand etc. back home the guy has a wife and kids, even several girlfriends in thailand or has no intentions of marrying her, taking her home or moving to thailand.

    In the end it boils down to "long distance relationship"

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Your a long distance boy friend. So many women here are know to have a few of you around to sent them money and have a good time with when they are here. The busy at work claim is common here always as a good excuse for not contacting someone. Just when you come be careful and ask her to her face. But you will never know for use until you live together day after day. Even then she could be cheating but you got a better chance to find out if she is or isn't. But don't dump her on my account or anyone else here find out yourself. Just saying it is not uncommon here.

  • 5 years ago

    1. Lonely

    2. See you do not offer a stable future.

    3. Know you are stringing her along for sex only.

    4. See you do not understand Thai culture (of care for family, etc.).

    5. Do not see any commitment from you.

    The two women you lambast are just reacting to your weirdness. Stop USING Thai woman like dish rags and see you YOU can build a trusting, CONTINUOUS life together. Otherwise, get out.

  • Nazia
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    No person can work more harder than my brother does. He sleeps only 3 hours at night. 24 hours is a long day . No one can be so super busy. If she is true in her relationship, how hard is it these days to come up with 15 minutes a day for talking to you or replying to your text. Maybe you are no use to her since you are not helping her financially. Money is a big thing over there. Just meet her face to face before moving on with your life.

    You guys to Thai women are like ATM machines and to you guys they are like f.uckbuddies. So they have to tread carefully as well since they have to marry and want to have a family. I would not call it true betrayal. However, they will need to secure their future as well.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    You cant blame them for squeezing money out of rich western losers that cant find a woman back home.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Girls there will just use you for money. They are too poor and their families need it.

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