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Is this irrational?

This is kind of a strange two part question and I'm a guy in my mid 20's. First, let me say that I do not like my job and am in the process of actively looking for a new job. In fact I even had an interview last week.

The second part is that I'm also looking to settle down with someone. However, I don't believe that person is where I currently reside which is not too far outside of Washington, D.C. Hence, I'm considering relocating and am considering Texas, specifically Houston, TX as I've met a few people from there and they all seem to be very nice and easy going. Also, there are many companies based in Houston and their economy is doing a little better then the rest of the country so companies are hiring.

Just about all of my friends and family are still living around the D.C. area so if I do choose to relocate I will essentially be uprooting my entire life to go to a place where I do not know anyone. My group of friends is fairly small yet it's a great group of people I wouldn't want to trade. Also, I should mention that I'm not the most outgoing person so meeting new people may not be the easiest for me.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? What did you do and are you happy with your decision or not? I am really looking for someone to settle down with I honestly don't thing she is where I live now but I have a great group of friends here.

I feel like this scenario is kind of similar to Ted in "How I Met Your Mother."

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    i don't there is such thing as not being able to find 1 person at all to settle down with in the entire population in your area. Maybe you just dont socialize enough or join enough clubs or go into opportunities to meet people. Don't move to another state just cuz u assume u will have more chance of finding someone to settle down with.

    Depends on what you value more. Your social life or job. If you're going to live in a new place, you gotta take initiative to meet people. Otherwise you will be very lonely.

  • 5 years ago

    Mid 20's here, while I don't love my career - it affords me a good living & I'm good at what I do. Not settling down until I become financially independent - e.g: being forced to work. My advice, unless you can make a good living to provide for a family - keep hustling and find something your good at. Otherwise, your going to wind up stuck in a **** job trying to provide for a wife & kids or worse - paying child support and barely making ends meet.

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