Break up advice?

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Its stupid doing this on yahoo but i just want to get it out of my system. I am a 15 year old guy and have recently broken up with my girlfriend. Its almost been 3 weeks since we broke up and there's still small feelings for my ex. She was my first girlfriend and we had a good relationship for around 2 and a half to 3 months. However things went down hill as its as if I was putting more work into our relationship with myself planning places to go all the time whilst asking her to pick a place to go which she never did. She started acting differently in terms of her treating me as if i was just some guy she knew and it didnt feel good until i had enough and fought with her. During the last month she was giving me mixed messages with her telling me how she missed and loved me because we went to different schools but when she was with her friends she never seemed to care. She eventually dumped me because of me being unable to handle a joke and it just didnt seem like a good explanation for our break up so any advice here on just getting over it ?

Chris Sellick · Answer

Yeah,move on.Just get out there and circulate.Look for girls that are interested in you to start with.Those girls will look at you and smile at you.Make your move on them.  Dating and relationships are a learning 
experience.Learn from it.Get better at it.Read dating books for teenagers. As you date other girls try to find out sooner what you and a girl have in 
common.Get to know them sooner.If they dont like to make an effort to make a relationship work then you know you dont want them.

the · Answer

Your first break up will hurt as will your future ones to come. It just takes time. Just make a clean break (no messaging/talking etc to them) and allow yourself to heal.

Mike · Answer

You'll always remember her as your first girlfriend.  You'll always think about it occasionally and it'll always be there.

It didn't work.  You're going to have more relationships that don't work and that's fine.  The first one always sucks.

Enjoy the memories.  move on.  That's about it.

Good luck, man.

E. · Answer

She doesn't seem to like you as much as you like her. I'd suggest stop talking to her and meet someone new at your school. Focus on yourself and you will attract the right person.

Eagle · Answer

Time. That's really all there is to it. Maybe finding another girl, but don't strain it. In the end, you were happy without her at first, so you can still be happy after.

Anonymous · Answer

just move on man. your only 15. there are plenty of other girls out there. relationships arent even serious at 15.

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