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Best way to bring up giving my new BF a BJ?
So I have been dating this guy for about a month now, and we're really hitting it off well, hes very sweet to me and I like him a lot.
We have made out a lot but never really gone past that, nor has he tried to force me into doing anything, hes very sweet with me.
Long story short, I really want to give him a BJ, but I don't know how to bring it up or ask him? We have never really talked about sex or anything so like, I don't really know how to ask him if I can give him one and im nervous about what hell say. I've done it before, several times, but they are the ones that ask me to give them one.
This is new territory for me, I've never had a guy be so patient with me, and its so nice cause it makes me feel he really cares about me, but I really wanna do this to him. Please help! If your a guy, how the heck do i bring this up? Or next time were making out do i just, go for it?I dont want to scare him off or have him t hink im a slut.
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- 4 years agoFavorite Answer
Well it kinda sounds like you are a slut no offence but if you want to give a guy a BJ after dating for a month you are going WAY to quick slow things down a bit he sounds like a nice guy don't ruin a change of a future with him cause you wanna give him a BJ. Slow down take it easy don't rush just let things happen. Hope this helps
- Anonymous4 years ago
You dont "talk" about it.. you do it. The absolute BEST BJ I Ever experienced was with the woman who is now my wife. We had been dating for about 3 weeks, no sex or genital contact. I was trying to be a gentleman and not rush her because she was a lady unlike many of the sluts I use to do. One night we are at the beach after dark just talking and kiss.. it got heavier and heavier. Of course I had an erection the size of the Eiffel tower about that time. She pulled me over on top of her and we dry humped for awhile. It was during this time that she had an orgasm.
After she got her breath back she pushed me back in the seat.. unzipped my pants and pulled me out. She was all over me like white on rice. I have NEVER had a woman go at me like that. She had me primed within a couple minutes. And because I was a gentleman I wasn't just going to "surprise" her by having an orgasm. So I told her that I was about to come and was it ok.. She never missed a "lick".. said "Ok, go ahead".
So, I just relaxed and let it go. I thought I would NEVER stop coming. She just stared up at me the whole time, which was also an added turn on. I FINALLY quit and she pulled off me. I could barely breath. That incident led to A LOT of sex between us, both oral and vaginal. So, dont worry about talking.. just wait for the right TIME.. pull it out and do it. I guarantee you, he wont be trying to pry your lips off him!
