IF I get married down the line, not wanting my wife to have a job is that ideal?

I was thinking about IT I don't make a whole lot of money, but I would like to provide for her if we had a child, I would like for at least the first few years of the childs life for my future- wife to stay at home and raise him/her to elementary.. is that a backwards way of thinking? can I achieve that? my gf has a great job, and i could see her becoming my wife and having a family. but I wouldn't want her to quit but I also wouldn't want her to work