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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 years ago

Why did she unblock me Snapchat, and messaging?

So basically me and my GF have been dating for half a year and just recently 4 days ago she decided to break it off basically saying she needs time to focus on herself. I asked her how she felt about us today and it went like this

Me:"(her name) do you feel anyway about me and do you still want me in your life?"

Her:"I do love you (my name) it's just I just need to focus on myself. I don't knowanything going on in life right now. I don't know what's wrong with me. It's really sad to say that. Everything happens and I'm going through my own personal things.

Basically she had a lot going on at home, she had been assaulted by one of her friends, has school, and she's a moody person. She sometimes go through a depression age and we would always get into arguments about them. She would also block me from contacting her when she would get upset. She is pretty much very emotional to say the least but I do love her very much. Plus, she use to get jealous and assume things in the first few months. So the day after the 4th day she blocked me on Snapchat and by messaging or calling her out of nowhere. Then today I find she unblocked me by looking at the "add contacts on Snapchat. I was shocked cause she blocked me to fix herself. Then come to find out she's out and about at some guys house two days ago. Now I'm here all sad and confused. I know, move on but it's hard. I still love her, yes, because of the memories we had and everything but it's like why did she do this to me?

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    I honestly think you need to sit down with her and talk it out.. probably the best thing to do considering that it's so confusing.. but girls always (most all girls atleast) go through a short phase like that.. if it's going on for a long long time, you really need to see what's up. Ask her what she means by "myself" because that could lead to possible answers. It's okay to feel sad, we all have emotions and it is normal. Don't let it get to your head that much, just make sure youre treating her right and it will pay off. She unblocked you on snapchat and messaging probably because she's done with being like that. My bestfriend used to block me on Instagram all the time and when I asked her why, she said she was upset... that could also be why.. make sure she's happy.. good luck (hopefully this helped.)

  • 4 years ago

    There could be a couple reasons why she's acting that way

    1. She could possibly want to break up

    2. She's just going through something and actually need a break from your relationship

    3. You just have to give it time an wait until she comes back on her own

    I wouldn't say that it was you for the reason of her behavior. She's just being immature about things

  • 4 years ago

    Well call me crazy but she from the sound of it she seems to have a lot of aniexty tbh I mean if she's acting that way. She has a lot of stress on her right now and she's overwhelmed I've went through the same thing only my boyfriend was like that. Give it time and she will come back she must of unblocked you because she does care; a lot and couldn't handle you being blocked it happens okay and getting jealous only means she really likes you. Obviously she'd assume stuff and that has to do with aniexty not saying she has it for sure I don't know the girl but from the sounds of it she's just overwhelmed with life right now and give it time.

  • 4 years ago

    She may be doubting the relationship, but she could also just want a break, like she said. Give it some time, and if she doesn't come back to her senses then she's either considering moving on or she already has. If she's uncomfortable in herself, then give her some space, and try not to jump to any conclusions about what she was doing at her friend's house....he may just understand her situation. Ask her if there is anything that you can do to help and that if she needs you're there for her.

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  • 4 years ago

    I am going to tell u ahout a personal experience so u could relate . I was best friends with a guy and he liked me ( i could tell ) He asked me to be his gf and i agreed but changed my mind after only 2 days and broke up with him . However , after months i came back to my senses and actually realized i made a mistake by breaking up with him . Well it was too late . So basically being a girl isn't as easy as most of you guys think, a girl can be terribly moody and bipolar and can change her mind about a certain thing like a million times . She said she likes u , but needed some time for herself . So the breakup is temporary, she'll eventually miss u and come back to u and obviously does not want to completetely stop the communication between u two .

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  • 4 years ago

    In my opinion there's really a lot going on in her life right now. The best thing to do is sit together and talk about it, see if she still loves you and you also should show passion and sympathy to make her feel better. By the way, her going over to friend's house could mean nothing. Even if two people are in a relationship, they are still free to meet other people and have friends of the opposite gender.

    Thank you for answering mine :-)

  • 4 years ago

    I dont know what to tell you but you probably know her more than i do and i think there only two ways either make her jelouse or give her time if shes more mature than to be jeloused into it than talk to her take a break start hanging out with other guys and girls not to make her jelouse but so you can take your mind off of her about the blocking thats what i do tbh when i dont know what to say or how i feel about that person so she obviously needs a break let her miss you for a while

  • 4 years ago

    Before you jump to any sort off conclusion it's best to find out what exactly she was doing at that guys house. And if it is what you think it is, I guess she sort of betrayed you, I wouldn't say move on but move forward and try come to terms with happened. Its up to you if you want to forgive her and get back with her though. But definitely talk to her about it seeing as she unblocked you, and get the full story.

  • 4 years ago

    I think she doesn't love you anymore, I'm a girl and I've been through that, when we say I need my space it's because we have someone else. You should move on. But if you really love her just talk to her, tell her to be honest with you, you deserve to be told the truth. And yes find out what she did with those guys..

  • 4 years ago

    Because she is doing irrational things due to depression. you are just in the line of fire and she will continue to do irrational things while she is having this depression. She doesn't know what she want's as her mind is not in a normal pattern. You can get hurt by the way she does things without really having a clear reason for doing things. She needs professional assistance.

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